When DD was a baby we had a fabulous spoon and fork that were angled at the end to make it easier for unco-ordinated babies to find their mouth with them . They had nice fat rounded handles for little fists.
We also had a two handled plastic cup - no spout - that was on an angle though the base was flat. It didn't need tipping as far to drink from.
Anyway she is 7 and they are long gone, came from friends with older children originally. But I would like similar things for DS - anyone know what I mean and where to get them from?