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Delayed ejaculation or over use of porn ?

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eggtimersmashed · 12/09/2022 09:50

Good morning.
I've been thinking about whether my partner who is 50 has DE or if he is desensitised from porn/ wanking.
He enjoys porn , he says a couple of times per week. We are very open sexually so I don't think he would feel the need to lie.
He can cum himself mostly but when wears together it can take him a long time to cum manually or through oral.
He always cums through intercourse and cums quickly.
He says the end result is not IImportant to him, he loves the process and is a very generous lover who takes so much time wi
I know from his reactions that he genuinely loves the attention he gets and he loves nothing more to give to me and watch my reactions to him.
My only question is that if he can usually cum through Masturbation himself then is there an issue when he rarely cums when I masturbate him and or give him oral, despite always finishing when we have intercourse?
Thanks.

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justabagman · 12/09/2022 11:43

as a 50 yr old sensitivity had reduced significantly with age.cutting down on masturbation has improved intercourse and time to climax.

HowlongWillThisTakeNow · 17/09/2022 07:47

To be honest, it’s probably a bit of both, I’m 50 something and DE can a problem sometimes during intercourse, but if you fella comes quickly during intercourse then he doesn’t have DE., but you might not be using enough pressure, personally I almost never come from Oral, it’s very enjoyable, but never gets me there

JangolinaPitt · 22/09/2022 06:17

*personally I almost never come from Oral, it’s very enjoyable, but never gets me there’
interesting and reassuring because my current bf does not finish through oral whereas exh did and I wondered if I was doing something wrong (he says not and that he enjoys it) but good to know that men vary 😁

girlfromyorkshire · 22/09/2022 17:47

Could be some of both at 50 but also something random like certain things get him there quicker than others. My boyfriend took a long time and usually didn't get there through oral but was done in a couple of minutes (too quickly) with an HJ or sex.

I think porn is connected also. My boyfriend has said that he watched a lot of porn since he was younger and this usually led to him masturbating. During COVID he went on some medication for anxiety and this really seems to have switched off his urge to watch porn and his need to masturbate. It also takes him ages to cum now if he does so at all.

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