Blow job tips please

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Hi please can I have some advice on how to give a good blow job without my jaw aching after 5 mins? I’m new to this and he lasts ages! Any good tips and technique appreciated, he’s way more experienced than me and very good in bed so I want to make sure it’s good for him. Thank you!

Lots of variety - don't think that you have to be blowing up a balloon for 20 minutes! Licking like an ice-lolly, gently sucking the balls, alternating between hand and mouth, blowing gently on the head and lots and lots of saliva!

Ask him what he likes and when you get tired - stop.

I think communication is key. Talk to him about it. He'll appreciate that. There's lots of online resources but if he has a large penis,vary your technique. You may want to suck on the tip of it whilst stroking his shaft, instead trying to get all of it in your mouth. But there's lots of things you can try. Licking or sucking on his balls is always a winner!

Think ice lolly, but a warm one.

As suggested up thread it’s not a competition to see how much you can take in, stay comfortable. And communicate with him with regard to what works.

You can use your hand on the girth to stop it going past your comfort zone; gagging is neither comfy or sexy. Once that has been established, l prefer to go hands free.

When you’ve had enough your hair on his di*k & balls usually gets the job done lol

I always start with my hands, with my mouth close using my breath to tease. Then my tongue around the tip and then in my mouth, sucking and sliding. I repeat this until the guy orgasms if I am just giving a BJ.

I like to start sex and finish sex with my man with a bj. Men are visual , make sure you give him a nice smile and lots of eye contact, if hes a good size comment on how big it is , get it as wet as possible and when you are a bit tired tell him how much you want him to fuck you with it. The maybe later return to the bj and let him cum all over you. He will be putty in your hands if you do this

Forgot about the eye contact, definitely do that. If you do let him finish over you like @spritelover suggests, watch your eyes… it stings like crazy.

Thanks everyone, love the tips…😊

Start of at the tip only, go deeper occasionally. When it’s deep keep it in there and massage his balls. If tired wank and lick the tip.

My partner likes me to go to work with the tip of my tongue on his frenulum area with firm pressure. This means that I don;t have to bob my head up and down or make my jaw ache, so it's good for me too. Another little variation we do is where I invite him to give me instructions, using only the words 'softer' or 'harder' and 'faster' or 'slower'. I read this in a women's magazine years ago and it sounds corny, but it's really quite fun.

I always find a gentle squeeze of the balls and mix licking of the end and sucking the shaft works for dh , also rubbing his inner thighs moves things along nicely

I think there are two parts to a BJ or two kinds of BJ. Slow & teasing, maybe its just foreplay so you don't want him to finish, or you want it to be low effort for you while he gets more turned on, then the second half is faster and more purposeful, you want him to cum.

I don't waste my time licking his balls or the bottom half of his cock anymore, he says it barely feels like anything. Tongue swirling around the head is what he really likes. And when I don't want to be slow and teasing anymore, I use a hand at the same time with quite a firm grip and start bobbing up and down more. Once you get the rhythm right, don't change it! Balls get a squeeze sometimes if I am positioned well enough I can use my other hand but I don't think he misses it if they don't get any attention.

Number one tip if you really want to blow his mind, don't stop when he cums. Just slow right down, soften your grip but keep going. He'll let you know when he needs you to stop!

Oh and get a bullet vibe for yourself at the same time, makes it fun for you too and it'll just turn him on even more.

That’s great advice thank you! I’m going to need him to communicate 😂

try to keep your teeth off it.

also add a hand or fingers around the base of the shaft to buffer him thrusting too deep (it takes an immense amount of self control not to thrust and can diminish the experience) but also tightening you grip at the base by his body can trigger the orgasm and also increases satisfaction because it mimics deep penetration.

My balls are very sensitive (painfully so) and do not appreciate any attention whatsoever. ymmv.

As a man there’s only 2 things that make a good BJ for me:

1. Enthusiasm
2. Spit (lots of it)

anything else is a bonus.

A sloppy blowjob from a woman that’s really going for it… NOTHING BETTER

Spread legs, not lies.