Being called a milf

[ThisElatedMember]

I'm 44 now and have 2 kids in their young teens. Since having them kind of lost my self belief but recently I went out on a hen do and some young guys in there mid 20s ended up chatting to our group and they said I was a mild. Kind of shocked that they thought this but I did like the idea that people still think I'm fuckable. Anyone else have a similar situation ?

it happens if you look after yourself & take care of your appearance, wether it’s behind your back or in front of you. X

I’ve had it happen a number of times. I don’t relish it though. I’m not a prude (l’ve enjoyed a few encounters with some younger ones along life’s journey) but it all seems like male childishness and laddishness to me.

Crass wording and a little unimaginative from them, but in your words, who doesn't want to feel that they're "fuckable"? Surely everyone must feel something at being told that?

Romance and passion are not dead. I want to seem fuckable, but l am not just a passing hole, be it a one off or more, l want a fuck with a little style.

Wait til someone calls you a Gilf, did wonders for me 😁

Well it was obviously supposed to be flattering but it all depends on whether he was fit and if you were actually flattered

That's the funny thing, had never even thought of a younger guy like that. But after he said it, I did feel flattered and did find him attractive. Just felt a bit odd as he was much younger than me

Just enjoy it. A younger guy in work had crush on me and I was flattered, and seriously considered reciprocating

Yep will try to for sure, have replaced it back a few times in my mind and kind of regret not pursuing it or seeing what could have happened. But easy to think that in hindsight

Yeah I get that. Sometimes it's just nice that you still feel attractive and desirable although I do keep thinking about how nice it would be to actually go through with it!

Completely agree definitely nice to know someone wants me especially a younger guy who I didn't think would be interested given he could easily find someone his age. Definitely could be exciting to give it a try

First time I got called a milf was bitter sweet... I thought i was still in my prime but at least they still wld lol

I wouldn’t personally use the term MILF or GILF as I would imagine some women would take offence. Maybe cheekier younger guys can pull it off with the power balance.

I would say these threads always surprise me how some older 40+ women are surprised how desirable they are to younger men.

We did have a rule that mums of mates were out of bounds. Only saw it broken once to pretty devastating effect.