Power exchange

[AliceAbsolum]

Hello MN. I'm wondering if you do engage in a dominant or submissive power exchange in the bedroom, What's that like for you and why do you like it?
I'm really submissive, but I'm not sure why I like it! 😂

Yep love it both ways x

my partner is quite submissive & I wish they less so sometimes, any tips would be appreciated

I also wonder about this. I’m naturally pretty submissive, which I do find quite troubling at times. I’m not sure why I am like this, the need to submit to men sexually feels pretty hard-wired in but I think some distressing things that happened to me as child probably turbo-charged these tendencies. None of this is congruent with the person I want to be but I am not going to crucify myself over inclinations I didn’t create and can’t control.

I hope you're kind to yourself with this. That you don't get dragged back to those distressing times. Must be hard to be submissive and keep the very strong boundaries you'd need.