Butt Plugs

[Outnumbered89]

DH and I want to experiment with anal play, he sometimes uses a butt plug or dildo on himself when he’s solo, but not used when together. He’s bought a butt plug for me - I’m an anal beginner. what should I do to prepare? Is. It just a case of lots of lube and gently push it in?

Yes. That's all.

I'd suggest some solo play first so you can get used to the sensation. It's an interesting one the first few times.

ensure the plug has a big wide base so it won’t get sucked inside you
also make sure you have been to the toilet 1st

It will be a big uncomfortable as you push it in , once the widest bit it inside you will be fine

I would suggest you go slow. Lube up with his finger or two then just lie sideways on with his hard penis just pushing gently against your anus. When you are ready you will gently push yourself on to him. Sideways on also allows him to stimulate your clit, I think it's called a 'reach around' in the trade lol.
A lot of women like the penetration to happen just on the point of orgasm.

Just a tip for later. Some women get a bit sore afterwards, especially if they haven't bothered with lube. Also, because bum muscles are much stronger than vaginal muscles, some men also feel a bit sore afterwards, 'like my dick has been through a mangle' I've heard it described as!

I LOVE a good butt plug. One of the greatest gifts there is 😊

Oh I misread the question, I thought you were thinking of exploring anal sex!