Ok, so my wife and I are mid 50s, married for over 25 years, totally committed and monogamous. Last night we had a few drinks and got onto the topic of fantasy. Turns out we should've had this conversation a long time ago as my wife is interested in us watching porn, with her saying she's interested in MFF. She suggested she was into the idea of another woman (must stress in no way are we after a third person, we just think fantasy is a positive thing to explore). We're both excited to explore this further but, as my wife said, she doesn't want this to become our new thing, and I agree with her. She is into the fantasy of another woman focusing on her and me, but she's no interest in a third male, although we explored that as, given it's fantasy, I wouldn't have a problem (in fact I'd have been up for it). So what should we do next? We haven't looked for porn for years, where would we start??? We want something realistic, sensual and preferably with people our sort of age.