Cunnilingus tips for men

[bumblebee1821]

Any tips welcome!

Communicate with your partner would probably be the best tip.

All women are not the same, and like it different ways. Ask her how she likes it, or start and respond to any instructions/guidance she gives!

A throbbing sucking on the clitoris feels great.

Talk and ask, but what I’ve found works is stroking and rubbing of her clit then going down and a bit of teasing licking around her area. Then stimulating the clit with your tongue as hard as you can, then flicking then licking the whole area and sucking the clit, but the game changer seems to fingers inside and licking and stimulating the g spot with fingers whilst licking. She’ll let you know what she prefers but ask, talk and watch her play with herself. Oral on your partner is amazing and the more connected you both are the better. I always think women are lucky with the right guy, 2,3,4 times they can come or more. With guys once we’ve come there has to be a break. I usually try to make she has come a couple of time and fingers, tongues and toys are great for this. Having said but we both do like the occasional quicky:) but bear in mind whilst most women would enjoy this, everybody is individual and for most men it’s pretty straightforward to make us come :) find out what she likes and enjoy doing it

1. Buy a packet of Tic Tacs. Take one between your teeth & build up tongue strength by flicking the Tic Tac.

1. (Seasonal) Buy a Creme Egg & practice scooping out the fondant filling with your tongue. This improves tongue dexterity.

1. Buy a kebab - preferably doner dont bother with salad & prsctice eating the doner meat from inside the pitta bread without eating the bread itself.

Dont shave
6 o’clock shadow works wonders towards climax x

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Have pitty on his DW/DP!

Agreed. It’s painful IME.

Vary everything - pressure, direction, rhythm and sucking pressure.

Make sure she understands you love doing it.

Offer it very frequently.

Ask what's good and what's not so good.

Absolutely. Totally agree. As does a neatly trimmed beard.

Ask the woman you are with what she likes 👍

Don’t change rhythms when you feel her getting closer that’s honestly the worst 😂

Make sure she’s warmed up before, plenty of kissing, playing with her breasts, gently rubbing her clit etc.

Kiss down her body and take your time, tease her and don’t just go straight into it.

Make sure your tongue is wet! Sounds self explanatory but there’s nothing worse than a dry tongue 😂 If her pussy is pretty tell her that, if she tastes wonderful let her know.

I don’t like a lot of pressure, so starting out light is best and then you can always lick harder if she asks for it. Take your signals from her and listen out for what she’s enjoying.

Lick her clit slowly at first and then build up the pressure/speed as she becomes more into it. Some women like fingers too. Let her know if you’re enjoying it. Light sucking on the clit is great too. Basically, try a few different things until you figure out what she likes and then keep doing it.

Some women like some anal play too like rimming, a finger etc but don’t try any of that without asking her first.

Enjoy it!

I'm the opposite. Everyone should be smooth.

I like a tongue inside me, replaced by fingers and then a gentle lick of the clit. When I’m cummjng and wet and I want them licking it up.

Find out if your playmate is happy to have multiple orgasms or is a 'one and done' woman - can avoid much frustration on both sides.
Close your eyes and taste your way around the vulva. The tip of your tongue on the clitoris is different, it's not just a bean, some ladies like the shaft under the hood to be squeezed while you're navigating.
Everyone is different, running your teeth against the clitoris or nibbling generous labia might be appreciated.
Lapping and probing the entrance is fun, but remember that there's a person attached, so try not to get carried away if your partner wants to progress further.