I'm a fairly experienced 51 year old woman in a stable long term relationship. My partner and I tried to spice things up the other day, also because the house was full of guests and we were climbing the walls in frustration, and we booked a night at a plush local hotel, though only stayed the evening!
I know (from friends) its a hotel where couple having affairs seem to meet up, and the whole thing was unexpectedly arousing, even though we had intended it mainly for practical reasons, as if I was meeting a lover mid week for some hot stuff. We weren't role playing or anything, but it had a bit of an 'effect' on me.
Purely because of the bedroom design, there was a big mirror opposite our bed and my partner got really aroused watching me giving him a bj. Indeed he said he fantasised about me doing that (just that, no sex) to a total stranger. I think it was just said in the ehat of the moment.
Now we're back in our mundane house, and he wants me to give him oral in front of a mirror. He said that he likes to see everything. I am not sure how I feel about it, not because I object in principal but because I'm failry neutral about it, a little self-conscious about my body and a little unsure what he's getting out of it. Is he just more visual than me? Is it an unsual request.