Curious to explore another side

[wellwhythehellnot]

Married for quite a while and I’m kinda curious about trying new things in bed. Problem is I’m super shy talking about it. Or talking about sex at all really. I do struggle to transition from ‘mum mode’ to ‘wife mode’.
I’ve been reading up about DH dominating, but he is a super lovely non bossy man. How on earth do I go from here to having wild sex?
cmon mumsnetters help me out

(name changed been on here yonks, tiny korean lady etc)

Just start with simple stuff , get some toys that can used on both of you, maybe a silk blindfold- just try small things and see what works for you both

Are you keen for him to dominate or do you want to try that....or both?!

can you say you’d like to try and spice things up a bit and agree to completing an online checklist of possible activities?

That is a good idea yes