A few months ago my 23 year marriage ended so I have found myself single for first time since my early 20s. I met someone OLD and long story short we recently spent night together and had sex. It was by no means ‘bad’ - he is great kisser and foreplay side of things was amazing so no complaints there and I’m keen to go back for more lol. The thing is though, he was kind of into sexy talk and I’m just not used to it! The content was fine, nothing weird and I suppose would be quite a turn on in some respects, like ‘I’m going to cum, that feels good’ etc so yeah no weirdness. What threw me a bit was he was calling me baby and I found it off putting, and he was kind of talking like a young lad asking permission and stuff rather than taking the lead - I felt like I was the man! Anyone else been with someone who talks like that? He asked me if I had any fantasies and I said no lol as I don’t and then he said he did but he wouldn’t tell me but he might tell me this week. He didn’t want to say because I don’t have any (should I have a think and make one up?!). I am wondering if from the way he was talking that he may want to be dominated. I wouldn’t know where to start with that one - I have lived a very vanilla life! I was thinking of telling him I’d find it really hot if he said my name when we were fucking because I think that would be good and it would stop the ‘baby’ thing. I’m sure I did of putting things also ha ha but yes I just wondered what’s the best way to address things. I would never tell him I didn’t like something, so that’s why i was thinking of saying that the calling me by my name would turn me on would deal with it. If I say nothing it’s going to continue and I don’t think I like it!