Advice on choosing a dildo size for my wife

[Bobby8709]

help with a purchase of a dildo! Wife has had a few vibrators in the past but has never fully inserted them but got rid of them a while ago. Now kids have grown up and we have abit more privacy at home of a day and night she’s said she’s rediscovering her sex drive and started playing with herself fairly frequently and recently said she would like me to buy her a dildo.
I’ve seen some all different lengths and girths and I think she would like a bit bigger than what I am (6.5) is 8 too big or is this a good size?

Enjoy choosing one together.

She said she wants it as a surprise but only rule is nothing huge. When looking online so many choices so not even sure where to start apart from the realistic looking ones.

Ha ha.

That's probably because she's already looked and found that the choice is vast.

She's left you to make the decision as she couldn't 🤣🤣🤣

Getting a vibrator feels like a completely different task as it was based on the different settings etc, getting a dildo seems to be more on the look and feel of it. Not sure if she’s hinting she wants something bigger than what I’ve got to offer haha

Mould your own dick dildo.

do it together, lots of fun, can get vibrating ones as well.

Didn’t even know that was a thing 😂 sounds quite messy? Have you ever done that?

Have a look at fun factory. A good german brand less real looking (fun) dildos . if If you think she'd like somthing more realistic realdick.com have a comprehensive range of life like dongs. My inclanation if she is asking you to choose is go for somthing different like glass or steel you can then also incoporate some heat play.

Size 6.5 to 8 inches woild be sufficient you can always go bigger and bulid up a collection . Dont forget the lube too!

Sites like lovehoney have a reasonable variety on sale and there is always ann summers.
Suction dildos are a good product as can be used when showering so personslly i would think of those types

Thanks, had a look and ordered an 8 inch suction dildo. Hopefully she loves it and gets lots of use out of it 😂

Update on dildo, wife loves it and has used it a few times solo including when she’s been in the shower. Seems to have sparked an even higher interest in having sex as well which has been amazing.