Partner wants me to sleep with other men

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I am F (45) and my partner M (39), only pays me any attention or affection when we talk about his fetish. He wants me to sleep with other men and even fall in love with them! We have been together for 15 years and have children. He never shows any affection and we just have a relationship where it feels like we’re friends. I don’t want this, I have spoken to him about it and he tells me it’s because he fancies me so much and it turns him on, the thought of him being jealous. I just don’t feel happy or content in a relationship which solely seems to rely on his fetishes. How would others feel about this? Thanks.

I do know of people who have experienced other men in their relationship and its ok if they are ok with it, so if your not happy then it should not happen

If you want to understand this subject better, then this survey by Angela Lewis may be of interest:

https://www.yumpu.com/en/document/view/12121315/the-cuckold-survey-report-my-other-self

If your partner loves and respects you, he’d never want you with another person. 🤷‍♀️

I've just had this conversation again with the man who said he wanted his OH to be a slut. He said "you're right. A big component is the woman being a wanton slut. That's the main thing. Wanton. Shameless. Licentious. Decadent. I'm not sure women can understand mens sexuality."

So there you go. Men want their OH to be sluts and it has fuck all to do with the woman's pleasure.

He’s one man, there are undoubtably many more of him, but he doesn’t speak for men

If he loved and respected you, he wouldn’t want another man having sex with you. I’d walk away now, Find a better man - there’s loads out there.