Has dirty talk changed anyone else's view of sex?

[GuapoLatino]

Had the wildest session last night but wondering if dirty talk made sex better

During our sesh she told me to speak to her in Spanish and say the sluttiest stuff. So did so but she reciprocated the freak level and it went better than originally thought

Wasn’t a big fan of dirty talk but man this changed a whole perspective on sex

anyone else feel the same way or is the Spanish and the accent that helped me 😂

Right: you're male and so am I, so we'll get a pasting here - but the short answer is "yes". It accesses a deeper part of my brain.

And I should have said: sorry for being male. I know it wasn't the response you were after.

Yeah feel it’s the same for every person here. Most of us like dirty talk but not disrespectful lol

So called “dirty talk” would just make me burst out laughing. Sorry!

Then it would be a win-win!

I love it tbh. Usually an "imagine if ... " scenario being described.

Was at a swingers club once where one particular woman was narrating - loudly - everything that happened to her during her various encounters in the evening. "You're eating my pussy! I love you eating my pussy!" which was definitely not hot for anyone in the vicinity.

You again 😂

Doesn’t even have to be especially dirty, my partner’s voice makes a big difference; keeps me focused on being intimate with him and stops my mind wandering onto shopping lists and spotting cobwebs behind the headboard.

It used to be like that when I tried it with XH.

Years on, a ONS said some really slutty stuff during sex. It was shit hot. He appreciated the effect it was having.

Don't know where that response came from, but I do remember that man very fondly.

Interested in this but I wouldn't know where to start tbh. Would you exclusively text this or do it face to face?

Ex tried to give me orders and got sweary as part of sex play. He was a bit miffed as it didn't work on me.

If its not personally offensive other than that it can be

Either can be very good, but keep it respectful and kind unless you both find you like it otherwise. There's also a place for humour - it's only fun, after all.

When in person and 'in the moment' , something like 'I love your ' is a good starting point, as is 'I love it when you/I/we <verb here> me/you with my/your *'. Or even 'Imagine that we're/you're/I'm <scenario here>.' Add bits as appropriate!

By text, something like 'I'm thinking of your elbow/eyes/other' can be a good opener. Imagine writing an interactive sex scene with your partner in real time.

Edit: bold text accidental, caused by asterisks and brackets!

It's changed my mind. For the better.

It can do. But not every time. 👍

Why do you say that Boomer55? Too much too soon?