discreet non-monogamy after infidelity in a marriage

[EssexMum80]

Looking to let my husband play away discreetly after he caught me cheating 🙈 anyone close to london/Essex offer any advice how to go about this?

Why don’t you just separate?

Wow what a mess OP.

This is going to end well 😂

So you want your hubby to have a revenge shag with your approval. Will you watch? As a witness to make sure the balance has been returned?

Don't you think he's at least entitled to 3sum?

Wow... is he that lazy that you even have to arrange his infidelity for him?!?! This takes 'wife work' to a whole new level!

How did he find out about your infidelity?

This is already a disaster. And instead of letting things die, it is about to be an even bigger disaster.

Do you want your husband to have sex with someone else? If no, it's a stupid thing to do, I am sorry. (regardless of you being totally in the wrong for cheating in the first place)

Is he ok with you having sex with someone else? If not, and him being upset about your cheating will not go away just because he is allowed to "cheat back"

"Don't you think he's at least entitled to 3sum?" Wow. That is... incredibly simplistic. Why would he even be interested in it?

Sex and intimacy is not a tit-for-tat type of thing. What the cheating have caused will not be healed by whatever people "offer" as an exxhange.

Looking at OP’s other posts, it might be he found her with the neighbour or browsing dating sites after DH became distant. Take your pick 😫

It was a tongue in cheek, throw away comment!!

Hey @exhaustDAD , Please your reverence do lighten up.

Haha, noted. I am light enough. I am not the one trying to fix the harm caused by cheating with another stupid idea. It's like putting bandaid on hemorrhoids.