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Do drugs prevent ejaculation?

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hotpinkgeraniums · 12/07/2026 22:20

Met a new guy, we slept together for the first time over the weekend but he couldn’t get hard. Did lots of other stuff which was fun. He was also quite hyper in bed and more talkative than usual. Today we did have penetrative sex (twice in quick succession) and he said he was coming and it seemed like he did, but there no ejaculate that I could tell? Could it be the effect of taking coke?

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Manonhere · 13/07/2026 10:03

hotpinkgeraniums · 12/07/2026 22:20

Met a new guy, we slept together for the first time over the weekend but he couldn’t get hard. Did lots of other stuff which was fun. He was also quite hyper in bed and more talkative than usual. Today we did have penetrative sex (twice in quick succession) and he said he was coming and it seemed like he did, but there no ejaculate that I could tell? Could it be the effect of taking coke?

Yes Coke can stop you cumming, as well as speed and MDMA. Seems he might have faked Cummings to hide the fact he was on drugs or not for you to feel like you dont do it for him?

hotpinkgeraniums · 13/07/2026 13:33

I don’t think he fully faked it as he had all the little aftershocks etc which I think are harder to fake unless he v good at that. Useful to know though! Thanks

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TomorrowNeverKnows · 13/07/2026 14:18

Check out Retrograde ejaculation. Its where the man holds back so much that semen is then discharged into the bladder (like a pressure valve!). It can be caused by a number of factors, he should look for discoloured cloudy urine if persistent.

FlyingBeGoat · 13/07/2026 14:40

Prescription pills like Alpha blocker or BP meds can inhibit the ability to ejaculate

Badbadbunny · 13/07/2026 14:42

Yes, my DH was on a prescribed drug for a enlarged prostate which made it impossible for him to ejaculate anything - he had dry orgasms.

lucyandmike · 13/07/2026 15:03

Hubby has been on Sertraline before, and after a few months found that he could not orgasm and ejaculate. He can go for ages now which has been wonderful for me for a while now!

Smithey588 · 13/07/2026 20:46

I have retrograde ejaculation and haven’t had any discharge for close to 15 years.

However, the way he was behaving, sounds like it could be drugs like coke, but tbh I’ve never done drugs so I don’t really know!

Mags1863 · 14/07/2026 23:48

Badbadbunny · 13/07/2026 14:42

Yes, my DH was on a prescribed drug for a enlarged prostate which made it impossible for him to ejaculate anything - he had dry orgasms.

My DH has had Prostate Cancer and no ejaculate was his first sign.

FlyingBeGoat · 15/07/2026 15:13

Mags1863 · 14/07/2026 23:48

My DH has had Prostate Cancer and no ejaculate was his first sign.

Sorry to read that, I hope it was caught early and the prognosis is good

mags1862 · 15/07/2026 16:59

FlyingBeGoat · 15/07/2026 15:13

Sorry to read that, I hope it was caught early and the prognosis is good

Thank you , just over 3 years ago , Radiation and Hormone treatment and back in it's box at the minute.
No mess to clean up now after sex😀

FlyingBeGoat · 15/07/2026 17:28

mags1862 · 15/07/2026 16:59

Thank you , just over 3 years ago , Radiation and Hormone treatment and back in it's box at the minute.
No mess to clean up now after sex😀

I’m on Alpha blockers after a BPH diagnosis a few years ago and it does work me the Prostate Cancer is next

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