Solo pleasure - tips and tricks

[ClamFandango]

Thinking about masturbating this morning - just waiting for DH to get up so I get the bed to myself. I would wake him up for sex but he's not been interested in me for a while now, and so my mind is turning to plans for a solo session when he's in the shower.

I cum very quickly with my vibe, which is great for occasions when I don't have much time but want the release. I just put it on max constant and I'm off in under a minute, even through my clothes.
I'm wondering about getting a suction toy - but have read they're even quicker for some women - and wondering what else I might try.

When I have the luxury of time, what I really like to do, is to peel a juicy grape, rub it on my nipples, then on my clit until I cum and then whilst I'm still enjoying the moment, I eat the grape. It's lush. I love sitting in front of my big mirror so I can see myself too.
Haven't got any grapes (or much time) at the moment, sadly.
What's your favourite way to go to town on yourself?

Far from me to tear down anyone's fun, but I just wanted to point it out that the super high sugar content of a grape can easily lead to yeast infection (especially that you peel it and you are more exposed to the fruit juice).

I knew someone was going to say this!
I will have a wash afterwards.

Not trying to annoy you with it, I just wasn't sure if it's something you consider. You know, washing it afterwards does not really help the situation. The imbalance caused by the sugars is already there at that point. Water will not negate that.

I think start your vibe off on a low setting and build the anticipation up.
Why has yoor husband got not interest in you? When was the last time you had sex with him? Not that there’s anything wrong with solo play ( I do this too) but have sex about 3-4 times with partner a week ( and we don’t live together but a couple for 7 years now).

I just use a vibrator, withdraw it when I feel myself starting to climax to let the orgasm have time to build up, then let myself come.

If you genuinely want tips and tricks, treat yourself to OMGYES . Same price as a good sex toy for all the courses, and there will be something new in there to give a try.;

Sex toy-wise, everyone should own a bullet and a wand. a suction toy and a rabbit style. with some good water-based lube. I never heard anything like your grape thing sounds fun. enjoy

My DW prefers clit stimulation and not inside with toys, but can cum with PIV. That is not a problem as she enjoys solo play and using toys (especially a wand) solo or together just curious if anyone was similar but has found a toy that works well inside?

I like to start on low intensity, over my knickers. Work through each cycle until I get close, then the same on the medium intensity. Then on high with knickers off. One setting where it buzzes, then stops is my finish setting. Im practically screaming then.

my sucker finishes me much, much quicker. Intense but not as satisfying

Not with a toy. A story running through my mind with my imaginary friend and fingers.. I have a summer story where she finds me in the shade under a tree. The winter story is that I rescue her from a snowstorm and wrap her with me in fleeces in front of the fire in my mansion.
Does it work for you?

I’m all about the clit, nipple stimulation and looking at myself in the mirror. No
toys but may insert something if I desire.

For me it’s all about taking my time and edging before the big O when I have time. When I am bored of being alone and feeling a more “slutty”, I sext while doing it gives my orgasm a stronger edge.

Does anyone use porn to help them? If so please what sites? I have been put off by some really ugly bodies in Cam ads that keep interrupting. Some on Ersties are OK..
PM if you prefer.