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Partner’s new fantasies during perimenopause and whether others have experienced this

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Tiptopp · 16/06/2026 09:00

Sex with my wife has always been pretty good and consistent, over recent times with kids getting older etc we’ve had to start to plan a little bit more like when we work from home or when the older kids are out the house of a night. I think my wife is probably going through peri as it’s more frequent and a lot more intense (I love it) anyway, last few days we haven’t had a chance as kids have been home etc but one night recently she told me how horny she’s been and how she’s played with herself several times in the shower or in bed if I’ve not been in. Again no complaints and I love to hear about it 😂, asking a few questions etc and she said she has played with herself whilst thinking about another woman doing stuff to her (we’ve spoke about it loads during foreplay) and then she said one night when I was out she started playing with herself and started thinking about a stranger fucking her and it was incredible. Again no issues, it’s fantasy and probably won’t happen, her usual type is tall athletic and typically ginger but she said this fantasy was not her usual type and she’s started making comments about how she finds Michael b jordon and Dwayne Johnson and other similar celebrities really good looking etc. again no issues. Has anyone else experienced similar and find it quite sexy? Don’t think anything will ever happen but she’s never been like this and it’s a very sudden thing so curious if it’s mainly down to going through peri?

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Toohottohandlex · 25/06/2026 18:51

How old is she? Yes, sounds like the sex surge of peri/menopause. My periods had stopped (abruptly) when it happened to me (45) but it can drive a woman wild! Enjoy!

CestLaVieYouSee · 25/06/2026 23:38

Certainly enjoy. Think my partner is just starting peri and she is doing sexual things she has never done before. Just enjoy the ride as assume it drops off after a while.

BreezyPeachGoose · 26/06/2026 13:54

"her usual type is typically ginger"

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