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Would you send a suggestive photo to a partner working away?

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CannotGetEnough · 14/06/2026 21:26

My boyfriend is currently working away and I want to give him a reminder of what is waiting for him when he gets home.

I'm going to text him a few things but wondering if a photo is too much? Best left to the imagination?

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BreezyPeachGoose · 15/06/2026 07:01

Just bear in mind that once you press "send" it's out there forever and irretrievable.

ThisZippyTurtle · 15/06/2026 07:04

CannotGetEnough · 14/06/2026 21:26

My boyfriend is currently working away and I want to give him a reminder of what is waiting for him when he gets home.

I'm going to text him a few things but wondering if a photo is too much? Best left to the imagination?

The answer is in your question. It can be suggestive AND leaves it to the imagination...that would be the best thing to send. Nothing you'd regret someone else seeing but which lets him know what to look forward to. Hope that makes sense!

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 10:17

BreezyPeachGoose · 15/06/2026 07:01

Just bear in mind that once you press "send" it's out there forever and irretrievable.

Yeah it would never be something too bad that I'd send. More of a tasteful photo and teasing words.

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CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 10:18

ThisZippyTurtle · 15/06/2026 07:04

The answer is in your question. It can be suggestive AND leaves it to the imagination...that would be the best thing to send. Nothing you'd regret someone else seeing but which lets him know what to look forward to. Hope that makes sense!

Perfect sense. If I do end up sending a photo it will be something tasteful. The words can be the playful part!

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AnotherVice · 15/06/2026 10:42

I wouldn’t because your photo might make him horny but then he’ll wank to porn because your picture wont be enough.

Sharingadrink · 15/06/2026 10:56

Tbh my partner has loads of me. If u trust him it shouldnt be a big deal

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 12:04

AnotherVice · 15/06/2026 10:42

I wouldn’t because your photo might make him horny but then he’ll wank to porn because your picture wont be enough.

He prob does anyway!

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CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 12:05

Sharingadrink · 15/06/2026 10:56

Tbh my partner has loads of me. If u trust him it shouldnt be a big deal

Yeah I do trust him 💯

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DixonD · 15/06/2026 12:24

I have, and occasionally more than just a photo 😬. And he wasn’t away with work, just a normal working day.

It was fine! Nothing bad happened.

Just don’t show your face if you’re worried.

DixonD · 15/06/2026 12:25

AnotherVice · 15/06/2026 10:42

I wouldn’t because your photo might make him horny but then he’ll wank to porn because your picture wont be enough.

This comment is a bit odd, sorry 😂

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 13:05

DixonD · 15/06/2026 12:24

I have, and occasionally more than just a photo 😬. And he wasn’t away with work, just a normal working day.

It was fine! Nothing bad happened.

Just don’t show your face if you’re worried.

Yeah I trust him completely so not concerned on that front.

Debating a voice note too! 🤭 but I think he will get more of a kick out of reading it. I might do all 3 separate weeks 😂

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Hito · 15/06/2026 14:56

Make sure it's tasteful. Nothing worse than getting a graphic photo!!

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 16:39

Yeah I know what you mean from OLD!

No it'd just be part of a stocking top or part of his favourite basque. That sort of thing.

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PaulRevere · 15/06/2026 20:05

Jesus, I've sent all sorts to strangers 😂Would have no qualms in this situation. I just can't get that worked up about it.

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 20:37

PaulRevere · 15/06/2026 20:05

Jesus, I've sent all sorts to strangers 😂Would have no qualms in this situation. I just can't get that worked up about it.

To strangers? 😂🤣😭

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CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 20:46

Gonna send a message on week 1 he's away, a voice note on week 2 and a photo on week 3. Week 4 should be explosive! 😂🤣😭

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PaulRevere · 15/06/2026 21:12

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 20:37

To strangers? 😂🤣😭

I mean, strangers I'm talking to, I don't just send them out speculatively to random phone numbers 😂😂😂

Although possibly that could be at least as successful as OLD 😂😂😂

CannotGetEnough · 15/06/2026 21:29

PaulRevere · 15/06/2026 21:12

I mean, strangers I'm talking to, I don't just send them out speculatively to random phone numbers 😂😂😂

Although possibly that could be at least as successful as OLD 😂😂😂

Strangers you are talking to? 😂🤣😭

Do you mean like on MN?

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PaulRevere · 15/06/2026 21:41

Post Office queue, on the bus, that sort of thing 😂😂😂

No, men on dating/hook up apps generally. I may be more of an exhibitionist than I'd like to admit!

(Although maybe I should get some business cards printed for next time I need to return something to Boden 🤣)

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