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Looking for sex tips

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blubberball · 10/06/2026 20:20

Does anyone please have any genuine sex tips? I'm fairly inexperienced, as been in long term relationships, so only had 3 sexual partners in my life. Wondering about tips for techniques, with hand jobs and blow jobs etc

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Geil · 10/06/2026 20:29

Google it. I found lots there.

BasicTales · 10/06/2026 20:50

That’s a bit of a broad question

FancyExpert · 10/06/2026 20:52

Don't actually blow!

mnmnddddd · 10/06/2026 21:09

Find someone you like ... let nature take its course.

onetrickponee · 10/06/2026 21:11

do what you enjoy and makes you feel good.

is this a new man ? ask him what he likes

blubberball · 10/06/2026 22:02

No I'm just curious if I'm missing any tricks

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FancyExpert · 10/06/2026 22:11

blubberball · 10/06/2026 22:02

No I'm just curious if I'm missing any tricks

I think sex is largely intuitive and by pressing enough button you'll eventually find the right one.

DixonD · 11/06/2026 00:02

Spend some time having a search through the many threads on this board. There’s loads of advice/tips.

Hito · 11/06/2026 06:37

My advice would be to ask your current lover what they like and how they like it. Mutual masturbation is a good way to learn about a new lover. I've had blow jobs from lots of women but prefer it a certain way and so I have to explain the method. I'm sure you liked to be touched a certain way so educating each other is the way forward.

OhForTheWeekend · 11/06/2026 10:04

Gently, is the initial approach. Contrary to what the 'internet' would have you believe, vigorous is not the way - there's a time and a place, and a point where that is required to get the job done.

Start with one finger slowly down the shaft.

Learn the bits that he likes being touched and at which point. Ask him for feedback during (awks, I know) even a quiet moan will be enough for you to know you've hit the spot.

Pressing all the buttons all at once makes anyone feel like a pinball machine.

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