Blindfold - What next?

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Heading to a hotel tomo with partner. I want to do something special for him. If I put a blind fold on him what could I do next. I have never done anything like this before so looking for tips pls x

Just do whatever you would do without the blindfold on - massage him, masturbate him, oral, tease him with stroking his body in different places. It will feel much different for him just having the blindfold on. Don't overthink it and enjoy!

The element of surprise will be a big plus - with a blindfold on, he'll not know where you're going to touch him next. Mix it up a little and also introduce a few new but simple things like using a feather between his toes or dragging some silk across his nipples. Build up to the point where his whole body is tingling with anticipation and hovering between a state of wanting to cum vs wanting to prologue the beautiful agony. Have fun.

Climb on top of him, naked, snog him with lots of tongue, then let your hair brush against him as you go down on him. Don’t rush either!

. For a bit of spice, you could blindfold him while he's naked and you're dressed, and then have a little French maid suit under your clothes, ready to go.

Stimulate him with a posh feather duster all over and then, when he's fully warmed up, take the blind fold off for a grand reveal.

Maybe try blindfolding him while you’re both fully clothed, then strip him, and only him, completely nude?

Everyone is different, but I absolutely love the dynamic created by being naked when my wife is still clothed (or partially clothed). Something about the vulnerability turns me on, and I image that being blindfolded would intensify that!

Give it a try and report back @Joe7t8,

An often forgotten sense is hearing, possibly because ear defenders are about as unsexy as it gets lol, but depriving both vision and hearing will intensify the sensation and vulnerability further.

Moans of pleasure are harder to regulate when hearing is deprived, which is pleasurable for the teaser and may reduce inhibitions of the teased. As always needs to be done with care in a safe, consensual environment

Lightly tie his hands behind back (and out of the way) strip him naked then tell him his whole body is there for you to play with.... then go over this whole body with your fingertips and see when (and where) he moanes the most...😂😂 and when you have found the best spots do it again

As a general rule, tracing a long feather slowly across the naked flesh of a loved one is one of the most sensually stimulating things you can do for another human being.

It becomes kinky if you try to use the whole chicken!

Good luck.

thanks for the thread. I was about to start one similar but took looks of notes from this

Take charge, like someone said earlier lay him down, tie his hands behind his back, if he resists say ah ah naughty naughty, kiss him all over give him a bit of oral, then lower yourself on to him for him to give you oral and say “orgasm please”

Icecubes.

An icecube up the bottom can have spectacular effects!

I read "hair brush" as one word at first.. which could smart a bit

Take a flexible ruler or stick & surprise him with a BIG wack on his rear end or wack his erect member as a surprise. stuff a lubricated tampon in his anus as you straddle his back dry humping him. Enjoy your weekend 🤭

Men often complain that women take too long to get ready - and I always make sure that my poor naked DH is blindfolded and can’t see a thing while I get ready, at a leisurely pace. I make him guess things such as what earrings I am wearing, and tease him with my nails, asking him what colour they are painted. Wrong answers mean that his sight is confiscated for even longer, and all this is before the foreplay even begins. By then, his excitement (and mine) are through the roof.

A friend told me that she tried on her wedding dress, while her husband-to-be was in the room. The bridesmaids took turns to make sure that he stayed very securely blindfolded the whole time! He could hear them discussing the dress, but he couldn’t see a thing, until the dress was safely put away. By all accounts, he loved this.