Is this particular fantasy involving my husband and another man unusual?

[missquickusernamechange]

Does anyone have this fantasy where you bring in another man with your husband in a specific way? I have been wondering how unusual it is, but it ha given me a lot of ammo to climax this year: I keep imagining a man penetrating my husband while my husband is inside me or pleasing me orally. Thinking about this turns me on every time. Not interested in another woman, but the thought of another man being inside my hubby while he with me is just hhhmm.
Do any of you have this fantasy/kink with your husband? Is it odd?

Yes, odd.

I'd say it was a common cuckold fantasy, but that cuckold fantasies aren't that common. If you go on cuckold sites, you will find your people x

Agree with Cookooahoo that it's not especially common but not massively "out there", either. Does it have to be another man inside your husband? I wonder if you pegging him would have a similar effect on you?

Isn't cuckold something like having your husband watch you with someone else? Or you go out to have adventures and then go back home to him?

Yes. Another man would be great. We did pegging, I asked and he tried it for me, but this is something different for me I think

Gets a bit complicated; it can be many things. The fact that it is you who wants him to be penetrated (consensually) by another man makes me lean towards cuckold. If your guy is actively wanting to be penetrated (consensually), then it's a bit of a threesome Bi fantasy (also common)

I suppose if your fantasy involves another man desiring your husband, then it's a form of hot husbanding,

At the end of the day, the name doesn't matter, but it helps when you are searching for like-minded people to know what you're looking for, either another person or someone who shares your fantasy

Ah ok. I am not good with terms and labels.
I am positive my husband would not really want this, to be honest. He is not interested in men. I don't even think he would want to bring in an extra person. We did pegging, but that he tried because I wanted to try, that doesn't mean he would allow another man.

Yep, the two things are very different and also more complicated, as it is you who has this fantasy. There are definitely ways you can maybe role-play it other than pegging if you wanted to bring some realism to it, or perfectly fine to keep it as an exciting fantasy

@missquickusernamechange :

Alain de Botton, of School of Life (on Youtube, Instagram etc), talks a bit about sexual fantasies and what they can mean. Perhaps look up some of his videos and see if they help you to understand what's behind this fantasy? It's not a fantasy I've ever heard before and I find it quite interesting.

(Just in case it's relevant to you, I'm M58.)

Yes - it is a fantasy I also have although I absolutely know not shared by my partner. I have mentioned it to him but generally I keep it to myself, the fantasy just occasionally flashes through my mind.

Would he be up for a bit of role play, or do you also think that would be a hard no?

My wife gets turned on by this very fantasy, so I don’t think it can be that odd or unusual.

What’s the difference between this and a man fantasising about his wife with another woman, which is fairly common?