Heightened libido during ovulation but struggling to feel fully satisfied

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My libido supercharges during ovulation but today, I can’t seem to have a big enough release to ease things, just lots of little ones. Does anyone else get this and have any tips for resolving things as I have work I need to do!

My only suggestion: hold that thought until it's literally unbearable, then act on it in a way that can leave no doubt you won't tolerate being burdened by it again, at least in the same day. The trick is taking it to the very limit and then obliterating it.

I’m having a season a bit like this at the moment, horny all the time but with no proper release except the orgasms I give myself with toys. What I find helps recently is leaning into my sensuality, slow rhythmic movements, running my hands over my body, oils, perfumes, wearing little clothing or none and just really embracing my feminine pleasure. I had a wonderful orgasm following this last night with lots of internal stimulation - clit stimulation is nice but it won’t give you the deeper orgasms you’re looking for. Go slower and lean deeper into those sexual feelings!

Thanks both, I like what you describe @BlueStrips and will give that a try just because…

Enjoy as many orgasms as you can, it's the pleasure you need, your body demands it and you have to do it, and eventually that powerful release you want will come.

Thanks @Stelu The issue is I can’t get my usual big orgasm that quells the urges and this month those urges are really intrusive. Like, really intrusive. It’s a good job the men around me can’t read minds!

Do you stop after every orgasm?
Maybe you need several consecutive orgasms to be able to build up that explosive orgasm you're talking about.
I say enjoy your increased libido and be happy that it's so high and masturbate whenever you can and enjoy the pleasure of each orgasm. Do it whenever you feel the urge.

I hadn't gone in to detail but think Stelu might have found what I was looking for when I said your should "obliterate" the feeling. Annoying if you can't get the relief you need at that point.

It’s ridiculously high at mo though….thanks peri! I keep going until it’s too much, but the urge remains. It’ll pass in a day or so

Hi, why not add a toy to stimulate your clitoris also when your having sex?

@310lovey I have lots of toys but no partner. A new FwB that I see every 2 weeks or so but not this weekend when I needs it. So I’m stuck with toys but none are quelling the urges…

You may find another fwb for in between times 🤣🤣jokes!

I’ve only just started having sex again after yrs of enforced celibacy… not sure finding another willing partner is viable… plus I’m not sure they could keep up this weekend

Only half joking....for those intense jobs you could arrange a rota?!

A rota of sadly the one man who has shown any interest at all in the past 5 yrs! I don’t have a queue of suitors

For those interested… I have seemingly managed to dampen my ardour!
phew!