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What outfit do men find most attractive on a date?

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SaraOnSaturday · 17/05/2026 22:22

What is your ultimate turn-on outfit for a woman to wear on a date?

Is it a casual outfit? Dress? A hint of lingerie on show?

I need to decide on an outfit for next weekend!

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IHE · 21/05/2026 07:18

I'd say it depends on what message you want to give him.
Based on recent experience, if a date started flashing her lace bra and stockings at me the first time we met, the conversation would have to be pretty eff-ing scintillating or I'd be sizing up the window in the gents.
But as noted above, you've posted this on the Sex board, so is the message you want to give him that your primary goal to jump his bones? Or are you looking for a life-partner? (Or both?)

For style advice, it would be useful to know your age and, dare I say it, bodyshape: what looks alluring on a 25yr old size 18 is less likely to work on a 58yr old size 8.

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SaraOnSaturday · 21/05/2026 14:59

IHE · 21/05/2026 07:18

I'd say it depends on what message you want to give him.
Based on recent experience, if a date started flashing her lace bra and stockings at me the first time we met, the conversation would have to be pretty eff-ing scintillating or I'd be sizing up the window in the gents.
But as noted above, you've posted this on the Sex board, so is the message you want to give him that your primary goal to jump his bones? Or are you looking for a life-partner? (Or both?)

For style advice, it would be useful to know your age and, dare I say it, bodyshape: what looks alluring on a 25yr old size 18 is less likely to work on a 58yr old size 8.

I obviously don't want him to climb out of a window mid-date! 😂

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Flatbellyfella · 22/05/2026 14:21

A nice colourful wrap around dress, with red satin underwear,& red heels (not too high) you will look & feel a million dollars. (wish I was your date.)

onetrickponee · 22/05/2026 14:48

good luck , hope it goes really well and perfect weather for your outfit

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SaraOnSaturday · 23/05/2026 08:05

Just thought I'd give an update on last night.

The outfit I'd chosen looked good. It was complimented on! I definitely made the right decision.

The date was good - though I'm not sure we fully click personality wise at this point. He asked me for a second date half way through our meal, so I have agreed to see him again.

I was tucked up in bed with my Horlicks by 12.30am 😉

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Madgallops · 24/05/2026 08:44

I’d say a nice dress, really sheer tights, painted toenails and peep toe heels!

Anannec · 29/05/2026 05:06

This date has already occurred, so maybe it's not worth replying, but anyway...it depends on what kind of people the two of them are, and I don't think you can just generalise it to "men". A man might respond to a (stereotypically) feminine presentation, or he might think it's all a bit too obvious. Some men would feel most comfortable if a woman turned up wearing her clean jeans. But if this date was a success, then that speaks for itself!

HotwifeLife · 31/05/2026 00:39

My dates love it when I wear this outfit https://i.postimg.cc/J4wKgBYv/img2.jpg

https://i.postimg.cc/J4wKgBYv/img2.jpg

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