Is it unusual for a partner to fantasise about taboo topics during sex?

[marrieddad]

my wife likes to fantasise about taboo topics when we have sex is this unusual ?

No. Lots of men and women do.

what kind of things are they thinking?

its quite taboo but it makes her orgasm she promises its just a fantasy I go along with it to make her happy

God, it doesn't involve Piers Morgan does it??

They used to involve Boris. That was beyond acceptability.

Other than that there is little that is truly beyond explanation. We are very discreet and won't tell anyone else because we want to try to see if it works for us.

PM me and ill share dont want to offend anyone

I dropped you a pm

my Dh maintains he keeps images in his head about us when having sex to help him over the line .

I’m desperate to know what this taboo is now!

Give us a clue! 😂

I think it's normal to fantasise to an extent though I imagine it happens more when someone is single rather than in a relationship.

Is the fantasy acted out or purely in your mind?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5524225-do-99-of-men-think-about-someone-else-while-dtd?page=1

Tldr: probably normal but don't admit it outside this topic if you're male.

whatever gets you over the line.

harmless but fun to share with your partner for role play if you don't want to keep to yourself

not taboo but we used to involve a hot female neighbour in our fantasy roleplay , tmi

When I was younger I’d try to visualise my elderly neighbour or similar to try to delay my finish line as things went a bit too quick. It

It's so normal. Read either of Nancy Friday's excellent books about women's sexual fantasies: you'll find EVERYTHING in them.

I’m certain it’s normal, it’s probably more unusual not to fantasise during sex