Is it normal - BJ vs PIV

[Molly2008]

Is it normal for a man to prefer blow jobs to penetrative sex?

My DH doesn’t, but that’s a sample size of 1.

I think mine prefers 69 (so yes, oral but mutual) more than penetrative sex. Standard blow job, no.

Mines loveeees a blowjob!!

I think the actual, although pretty meaningless answer, is that some do, and some don't!

I know that for me (woman) if I had to decide between oral and no PIV, or PIV and no oral for the rest of my life, I'd pick oral. I don't think this is universal, but I also don't think I'm a one off weirdo 😁

@PaulRevere has the right idea. It is like asking "which one is better - chocolate ice cream or raspberry ice cream". For some people, it's A, for others, it's B. So is it normal to prefer one to the other? yes. It's possible, normal, absolutely.

Know where your coming from (no pun intended)

I always enjoyed the act, certain amount of control & love seeing reactions.

Many variables, but I look a good one at least just as much

There are two kinds of blow jobs:

1. The first is the warm-up act before penetration. This one must NEVER make a man cum. If it does, brother, something is catastrophically wrong with your endurance.

1. The second is the legendary mid-battle blow job. This happens after five to ten glorious minutes of deep, relentless penetration when the man pulls out and asks her to finish him with her mouth. This one? This one will destroy him in the most explosive way possible.

Choose your fighter wisely.

Nope - have never been a fan. Every now and then I will fancy one (thinking I do like them) but then quickly am disappointed

Mine loves giving oral, I reciprocate and he appreciates it, but he's said many times he garners most pleasure from giving, which is a win for me!