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Starter toy recommendations for menopause

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NCBeePollen · 27/03/2026 12:24

Hi, my libido has increased a lot lately and I’ve been curious about trying toys. I never have before and I’m single. I have been curious about something realistic like a dildo. Or anything particularly willy-shaped!

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tanoshi · 27/03/2026 16:37

I've heard the wand is very good

GigiAnnna · 27/03/2026 18:29

A wand, rabbit or bullet are good vibrators to start with. Or if you want " willy shaped", take a look at the Love Honey website, there are loads to choose from. I have a textured glass one that feels good.

Parkrun69 · 28/03/2026 09:35

The Firefighter
From The smile Makers collection
it’s outstanding

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kerryanna1 · 06/05/2026 18:49

GigiAnnna · 27/03/2026 18:29

A wand, rabbit or bullet are good vibrators to start with. Or if you want " willy shaped", take a look at the Love Honey website, there are loads to choose from. I have a textured glass one that feels good.

never tried the glass ones - hopefully they are worth it :)

DanDan88 · 08/05/2026 13:55

Some of my friends swear by the lemon toy for clitoral fun but its not at all willy like.

CrazyCatMam · 09/05/2026 14:47

A doxy wand. Zero to orgasm in seconds. Can use through clothes. No lube required. You can use it alongside a dildo.

It's noisy though, and plug in, so there's that to consider.

Mine has given up after many years. Not sure if I should buy another one, or something else? I have a womaniser but it's fiddly, and not worth the money in my opinion.

You can alter the temp of a glass dildo by putting it in a bowl or hot or cold water, if that's your thing.

NameChangingNoreen · 09/05/2026 16:28

I use a wand and a clear dildo combo. Wand is amazing and with something inside I can get over the line multiple times

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