Desperate for Sex

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Do other woman think about sex a lot?

My partner is waiting for the snip. I’ve had a really bad experience with different forms of contraception, which has got worse since the recent birth of our second child so he decided to get the snip. We’re both allergic to latex and to be honest condoms are really shit!

Not having sex is driving me crazy it’s literally all I think about! I’m used to getting it twice a week. He’s scared to get me pregnant as we wouldn’t keep it so is staying away. We do lots of foreplay but to be honest sucking him off just makes me want him more. He is brilliant with his hands but it just isn’t the same and makes me want him more. So now my day is literally filled with me thinking about sex. Vivid fantasies. Sometimes not even with him.

Do other woman think like this and we just don’t talk about it? Or am I weird?

I'm making a tray in woodwork class; will this help me get sandpaper into the awkward corners?

Make sure your doctor’s number is in your contacts list.

Or my carpentry teacher?

I'm 48 and in a similar situation. I think about sex every day usually. I keep things ticking over with masturbation and toys, but I am craving the real thing.

The “real thing” (l thought that was coca cola 😀) and toy use are very different things though. I use a vibey more or less daily as part of my wake up routine. But l wouldn’t want 1:1 sex with someone then; too much effort first thing.

The needs are different as are the expectations. Fortunately, l have both in my life, but l wouldn’t want 1:1 sex on a daily basis. Usually 2-3 times over a weekend suits me fine. Rarely in the week.

sounds completely normal to me

you can get the magic wand type ones that could double as a muscle massager ?

daft question but can anyone explain the craving aspect of it, is it like really wanting eg a pizza but only having salad so you think more about the pizza etc ?

At the worst it’s going to give security staff a giggle. As I’ve mentioned up thread some vibies are quite discrete and my little bullet goes everywhere with me. You don’t have to have won that resembles a replica penis.

Have one! Bloody autocorrect. 🤬

....and ones that resemble an actual penis are probably a bit nicer than those that resemble a replica penis. 😉

I’m going through peri and my sex drive is through the roof. Sex is constantly on my mind, only wish I had a man just for sex to relieve this mad itch!

Well, you won't be short of offers on here after that!

Yep! I’m a widow of 8 years and think about it most days and probably will forever more.

Sorry to hear about your experiences, when my libido and I can’t get the real physical think, I wrote it on a different thread but it also applied here I try finding someone to chat and sext with at least it fuels my imagination and get me going (better than solo, less than the real thing :))

I’ve got myself in a predicament. I have the opportunity to sleep with a friend but he’s the opposite of what I find hot. He’s overweight, burps a lot just gives a lot of ewww vibes BUT..we get on and laugh a lot, it’s strange as I met him on fabswingers a few months ago and have only kissed him on the first date we had. Granted I was super tipsy and feeling freaky so did let him put his hand up under my skirt and touch me until I came.
since then I’ve told him we’re only friends as in the cold light of day I can’t and don’t want to go there with him.
these past few days I’ve caught myself thinking about him, him on top of me, satisfying me in ways I never thought possible.
do I just sleep with him to satisfy my urges and risk feeling disgusted with myself the next day?

Walk away. Wait for someone who really gives you that flutter.

only you can answer that, but be safe

Only you can answer that

^^ ignore this nonsense of course

Totally get this ^ I lurk on this board sometimes but rarely post as I don't have sex these days and thinking about that makes me sad!

I am 46 and in a sexless marriage - cannot leave for various reasons but the longing for sex drives me mad

I am also someone who wants a lot more sex than I get. I'm late 40's and happily married. DH has some health issues that affect his ability to be as active as he might like. We still have sex but its not has frequent as I'd like. I must admit I do look at some guys in their 30's as if I'm starving and they are a big roast chicken.

OMG I love it daily but got my toy

My husband and I divorced a year ago because he wouldn’t have sex with me. I was so horny a lot of the time and he preferred porn. I went through a 5 yr abstinence while my libido rocketed. It took me another yr before I had sex because I don’t want a relationship

same old story here
mismatched sex drives and plodding along with busy lives
sounds miserable reading this back to be honest
not sure what the answer is at the moment