Do you find it to be a turn-on when a man announces he is about to orgasm during sex?

[Explorativespirit]

This includes him actually saying aloud that he's about to cum, or just loudly moaning and/or grunting in such a way that suggests he is about to. I personally find it to be quite a big turn-on if it's done in a certain way. Not too exaggerated to the point where it seems forced, but not too formal either.

Nope.

Well Yes, sort of, I thought sounds or sometime words were a common part of sex.
Do you say anything to a partner during the act?

Do much depends on exactly what and how. Unguarded vulnerability is utterly endearing and delightful, royal proclamation of The Main Event is fucking annoying.

😂

@Explorativespirit Do you speak to him? Perhaps when he is too gentle and you want him to be a little more forceful.

Depends how they do it. Personally majority of the time I don’t mind it and sometimes can enjoy it depending on the situation without going into detail haha

I like it 😁

I personally find this so hot. I love it when my partner says this and it really turns me on, often tipping me over the edge too

Often, yes. If it was every time and repeated like the “I’m coming im coming” type then no. Sometimes it helps us achieve a simultaneous orgasm which is nice. I usually end our session with a football style report of “3-1” etc as I always show off how us women can come a few times and they only get one! 🤣

Yes, I like it.

Primal grunting and moaning - a definite yes!
Sweary filth about breeding - yes!
An announcement “oh I’m cumming!” - absolutely not! I know you’re cumming, mate, I can tell. 🤣

The thought of a fit man engaging in some primal grunting and moaning, especially with me, is making me a bit hot and bothered. 😂

I get so turned on when giving a blowjob, really in to it- and he says ‘aw your going to make me cum doing that’. Makes me all the more horny known he’s loving what he’s getting 🙈

If we're masturbating together I tell her as she loves to watch.

If she's giving me a blow job I tell her so that she's ready for it (and she says she appreciates me doing so).

If it's PIV I don't.

I love it but then I’m quite vocal anyway and communication is a big turn on for me I’m and out of the bedroom.

I can be quite vocal when I orgasm. Not so much in terms of actually articulating words, but just VERY loud moaning and grunting. It’s not something I do consciously, but when the orgasm is strong I find such a vocal reaction comes a naturally as swearing loudly when you stub your toe!

Apparently, this is quite unusual for guys, and this is something I only found out in my late 20s after having come out of a long-term relationship when a new partner remarked on it. She didn’t say anything bad, but ever since I’ve been a bit self-conscious and embarrassed, and even now I will often suppress my noise 😳

I love being vocal and getting lost in it all, grunting, moaning and whatever comes into my head - I do like to announce it at the point of no return, usually telling her to look at me because I need to see her face, before I completely lose it with the noises 😅

“Look at me I’m cumming!”

I hope you’ve told her you need to see her face, because I don’t think I’d wan’t you back for a repeat performance!

Yeah, it's very much the "I need to see you" rather than "look at me, haven't I done well" 😂

Not so much at the actual point, but my FWB is very vocally appreciative during and I really like that.

I love the noises my DP makes....I can tell the difference between pure enjoyment and then going to cum....he will sometimes say it as well.....its all good, turns me on so much

Yes I like it

Yessss. I love a vocal partner! Grunting, moaning, whimpering and being told theyre going to cum. It really does it for me.

Are any Bi women reading this? Is it similar for you?
I only have experience with one woman partner, she was much more experienced than me so gave me instructions and orders. We both get vocal now.