Any couples into Hotpast?

[GEZANDDEB]

Our relationship has been hugely enriched by Hotwifing which we became involved with shortly after moving in together.

The catalyst was undoubtedly our interest in Hotpast and we wondered if anyone else has a similar background?

I've never heard of hotpast. Initially I confused it with hotpaste, which, as you know, involves the smearing of Laogan Ma Crispy Chilli Oil on your partner's mucous membranes...a guaranteed way to spice up your love life

What is hotpast?

Is this where you think of past sexual partners ?

It's a kink that involves sharing details of previous sexual relationships and experiences. There's a forum for it on Reddit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/hotpast/

I suspect that it means different things to different people. For us it just happened as a result of her telling me about her life story.

She revealed details about some of her sexual partners during those conversations and how she felt about sex.

Personal hotpast wouldn’t be very hot, not even lukewarm, DW had a hotpast but, other than limited details, it’s not something she shares, perhaps i should encourage her and see what happens

I asked if she had ever had a ONS when we were talking about fantasies.

She initially denied having one as she thought I'd be disgusted. I eventually persuaded her to share and it was the most erotic experience of our relationship up to that point.

Over the next few months she became at ease in sharing her secrets, as she called them. Turns out that when I thought I was her 7th, I was in fact her 11th.

In addition to the 10 before me she had also spent the night with a stranger she met via a plane journey. This was just before we started to live together, so she was technically cheating on me so took some guts to tell me, although she was 100% by that time that my compression-driven kink would love hearing what they did.

Compersion-driven.