Zero sex drive - post partum

[TwinkleTwinkleX]

I am struggling with having zero libido.
i have 2 small children (3yo & 5 mo) and since the birth of my eldest I have so little sex drive.. not just with my husband but feel no need to mastibate / don’t get horny. I breastfed my eldest for 2 years and it came back a little after I stopped but I feel so unmotivated by sex now.
i am not sure if it’s hormonal or circumstantial (feeling very touched out by dc and generally so tired) Their births were very straightforward so not particularly traumatic. Anyone had similar experiences? Any ways of getting it back?
it’s effecting my relationship.. sometimes I don’t even want to be touched (dh would never pressure)

This is exactly how the am feeling. I have 3 young children (had 3 kids in 3 years). I feel so depleted in every aspect. I have zero sex drive and when me & my partner do have sex I cannot orgasm.

I have no advice but just wanted to share & let you know you aren’t alone & I do think it’s got a hella lot to do with raising kids and being exhausted ect.