Orgasms at 50

[nancylenny]

Married for 20 years. Two kids. Good, loving husband. Not much sex ever really. Mentioned to a pal when a bit tipsy that I didnt think I’d ever orgasmed either alone or during sex/sexual activity (I was SA at primary by another student, and a family friend subjected me to quite a bit of inappropriate touching when I was in my later primary years. I think I’m okay about this, but have often wondered whether it’s impacted my ability to relax during sex). Anyway, said friend brought me a sex toy (you may guess which from username switch!) for my fiftieth. Bloody hell! Like are they meant to be this intense?! Like pleasurable but also so incredibly intense and overwhelming??! I squirt (which I think I’ve always worried about and held back cos of!). How should I feel afterwards? Like totally relaxed? I don’t especially. I’m so glad I have and can, but it’s totally blown my mind. Any - er - late comers to the party??

Good for you! Better late than never. I'm glad you're able to have such a positive sexual experience. I'm not sure how you're supposed to feel after; might vary from person to person but as long as it's positive, then it's all good :)

That's wonderful but such a shame it's taken time - but as they say, better late than never. Hopefully you can have lots of fun and pleasure going forward. A lady who squirts is also quite special - so embrace that too.

Congratulations took my wife a while but we cracked it with a wand (before suction toys) It was a memorable day 😀

If you’ve never heard of it check out OMGYES then return the favour to your friends x

Out of interest, what toy are you using?

I’d have a guess at this from the username

Lemon

You can get the same thing off Temu for less than £20!! I brought one as a replacement after my livehiney one broke! And it was just as good!!

Temu sell sex toys? I've heard everything now!

Goes off to Temu

I’ll admit, I was a late convert too. I spent years with nothing but a trusty little bullet and thought that was as good as it got. Then curiosity (and Temu at 2am) got the better of me and I tried one of those licker style toys, and honestly it was a game changer. Same body, same me, just suddenly everything felt deeper, more intense, like someone had switched the lights on properly for the first time. I wouldn’t say it “fixed” anything, but it definitely taught me that pleasure can evolve. Sometimes all it takes is a different approach.

I tried one of those licker style toys

Is this a lemon, or something different?