So, DH and I have enjoyed some dressing up in the past - that is, me dressing up, as slutty as possible for the evening before we have sex. I'm not really talking fetish stuff, just short skirts, braless low cut tops, that kind of thing.
Mainly this is just around the house, but on occasions we've gone out to dinner with me dressed as such, or to a bar or club or something. DH finds it a massive turn on to have me dressed like that but to have to behave himself because we're in public. He also gets really turned on by seeing other guys checking me out and I have to admit, this really turns me on too. It never fails to make for some amazing sex when we get home.
However, we've only done the going out thing when we lived in London, where we could be sure nobody would know us.
However a few months ago, we moved to a fairly small town in SW France and have kept my dressing up to the house since. DH has a big birthday coming up though and I'd love to treat him to a trip out in a particularly slutty dress I've just ordered.
The trouble is, we both have quite responsible jobs here and the town is small enough that we are very likely to bump into someone we know. I don't know why but this really bothers me. We're too far from the next town to go there without spending a fortune on taxis. What would you do? I don't really want either of our workmates to see me dressed so sexily, but I really do want the sex that I know will result. Any thoughts appreciated.