My new man wants me to dominate him

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I need ideas on how to dominate my man.
Apart from face sitting which I’ve done plenty of to him to the point where he nearly passes out.
how else can I dominate him? I’m not talking dominating in a humiliating way but more hot and sexual.

If he's asked he'll have something specific in mind. It's a wide spectrum. I'd recommend asking him to be a little more specific in what he sees as dominance.

ive asked, he wants me to use my imagination

Make him do your housework while you relax with a drink.

You could try some soft dominance. Don't know much about it and never done myself but its more a nuturing approach to dominant play without the humiliation. I think!

Stilettos on his thighs whilst you reverse cowgirl him - he might change his mind 🤣

Tell him to stop watching porn and to grow up. Silly little boy.

lol I think that’s exactly what it is-porn fetish but I’m willing to give it a go

He’s just looking for you to take control no? Push him about a bit & be the one leading everything?

I wouldn't overthink it. Decide in advance what you would like him to do for you in bed, and make him do it. He's giving you an invitation to be selfish, to take what you want. You might as well use it.

My imagination is somewhat limited when it comes to this. Hence this post

You cannot imagine what you would like a man to do if he said he would do anything you asked?

(If on the other hand you want to know what things count as domination, well, try the prompt "How do I dominate a man sexually" into Google AI)

Meet him at the door with you wearing a coat with nothing else on and then do reverse cow girl and wait for the reaction

I still think he should grow up. What's wrong with just regular sex? All this domination and fetish bollocks. Wasn't around before porn, was it/

I think this is a nice way to put it. I have zero interest in dom/sub dynamic. However I do enjoy when sometimes one of us will be in charge (including light bondage). And I do LOVE teasing him.

Yes it was! Just not as common, particularly in respectable places like Cobham. What's wrong with a bit of playfulness anyway?

I hear that tying someone to the bed and tickling toes is a thing. I read it online.

Female domination can be very subtle. It doesn’t have to be all whips and chains. Verbal domination can be really effective.

When I first met DP, he was desperate to be dominated. I had him pour me a glass of wine and sit at my feet, stroking my stocking clad legs whilst I told him all the things I intended to do to him. Then I led him to the shower and watched him wash himself. (He later said it was a bit uncomfortable but also totally hot! 🤣)

Lots of eye contact. Lots of direction and instruction. Lots of praise. It doesn’t have to be any more complicated than that.

Or you could tie him to the bed, blindfold and gag him, stick a plug in his arse, and ride him like a rodeo..! 😂

Alright, so he wants you to dominate him. I can relate. So here's how this goes down. You go get yourself a nice sexy outfit you feel comfortable in. Not lingerie, something functional. Maybe like a tiny skirt, no panties, and a bikini top or something. Go find him watching tv or whatever. Grab his shirt and tell him, I'm horny. We're going to have sex now. Voice should be calm, controlled. It's not a question. Just instruct him - this is happening - now. Take him to the bedroom. Throw him down on the bed. Don't undress him - you tell him to get undressed. Grab his dick and squeeze it hard. Order him to lie down and sit on his face. Make him eat you out while you idly play with his dick, smacking and slapping it from time to time. Get on top of him. Start to fuck him. Tell him he belongs to you now. Have fun and innovate from here. You stay in control of the action. You tell him what to do. Consider some toys - you can buy a chastity cage and lock up his dick and keep the key. Treat him as if he is there because you have chosen he should be there, and this is your entertainment for the night, and he has to do whatever you demand he does. He is one full social class beneath you. Keep that in your mind. And have fun. It can be nice to be in control.

Lock him in a chastity cage and that way you decide when and how often.

Try manhandling him a little and demanding what’s happening next. When you kiss him leading into sex, grab him and throw him onto the bed. Ride his face for a bit so he knows who’s boss. Don’t let him touch you, work your way down his body, tease him. Then climb aboard and go at your pace. If he dares move out of your rhythm, grab his face and tell him you didn’t tell him to do that. Things like that

Define “regular sex”…?!

This fetish bollocks was around a long time before porn. It was around when the first humans were around.

History lesson. There was a guy named John Dalton. In 1808 he said to the world, there is a thing called an "atom", and it is the building block of all matter. Wonderful. So before that there was nothing, no earth, no sea, no sky? No; atoms were there at the big bang except we didn't have a word for them. And we weren't there yet.

So today you have words like domination and fetish. But those are just labels for some things which have always been there. Human inclinations, tendencies, things that feel good or natural. Porn didn't invent fetishes.

And what is regular sex? Woman stays quiet, lies down on the bed, man gets on top, three pumps and done, missionary only? Well, you know what, I'm fairly open. If that works for you and your partner, enjoy. But I prefer a menu with a slightly wider selection, thanks.

Mute missionary once a week 😬😢

Sounds awful!

Tie his hands (and preferably feet) so that he is stretched out completely prone on the bed.

Have him stimulate you without stimulating him. Grinding on his face is ideal. Make sure you are well lubricated one way or another!

Shallowing and edging. Don't let him deep and don't let him orgasm straight away.

Of course this all might be rather frustrating for you, but I tend to think that good things come to those who wait!