Joined FAB swingers

[pornstarmartinilover]

Hi all I’ve joined FAB swingers for some no stings sex. Just thought I’d give it a go. I’m very nervous. Please any tips on how I can make myself as safe as possible?

Fab is a little overwhelming in the beginning and you do have to wade through a lot to find the decent ones.
I met my now DH on there, we were both only looking for something casual at the time for various reasons, 7 years on here we are! We don't swing, neither of us are the sharing type with someone we love so that side has never been an issue.

Curious if your friends/family know that's how you met?

Some friends do, everyone else know we met online.

I found one FWB on OK Cupid, one on Tinder and one on Fab. The guy from Fab is next to me now, we've been together nearly 7 years now, as we fell in love!

How lovely! Well done to you both.

What I’ve learnt from that site is it’s shocking the amount of gay/bisexual men claiming to be straight and many of these are married to a woman. The majority of men are married anyway and will mostly tell you upfront. Once you do a little digging it’s scary to see that the guy who’s chatting to you has slept with a woman that has 100+ verifications and then she’s got verifications from men that also sleep with other men. It’s disease paradise. A lot of the men don’t use condoms either. You’ll find the women they sleep with will have pictures of 50+ men sleeping with her unprotected and yet he’s happy to go there. Hmm says a lot about his character. Yes we don’t know how many partners anyone has and whether they’ve used condoms but it’s the principle of knowing someone lets random people turn up at their door and have their way unprotected and your happy to go there too. Complete turn off. Also again the amount of men that will tell you in chat they are straight but will happily let another man give them head or give head yet they’re still straight. I think to make the most of that site you need to have a very very open mind and not be an over worrier about catching something.

It sounds vile when you put it like that! I did add to my profile before I shut it that condoms were non negotiable but by some of the verifications it was obvious that not everyone uses condoms. I notice that some put date of last STI test but how do we know a) that that is real and b) that they haven’t had unprotected sex since.

@pornstarmartinilover I used the site for about a year. I met a few guys and one did become a good friend however it was still a sexually orientated friendship. Fab becomes a lifestyle and addiction for many on there. As I said if you are that way inclined there is lots of sex to be had not to mention the endless swingers clubs and parties on there you can attend. The guy I became friends with regularly went to the swinging clubs and he described it as there’s a bar and then people picking partners to go and have sex with, going from one partner to another plus threesomes and gangbangs. I left the site because i realised it’s just soulless and it made me feel a certain way. You have to also be ok with the man you end up sleeping with and potentially long term is also sleeping with other women too. Depends how you feel about it all but I couldn’t do it anymore it made me feel awful about myself x

Yer I’m not secure in myself in normal dating so I figured this would not be helpful for me.

I think more men are just making others making other guys who also the same who it very sexy and very hard penis for both especilly whose wife will not have sex any more I am sorry about spelling etc as I have a stroke