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Mcc8700 · 05/12/2025 08:57

Not quite sure what has changed over the last week but we have had sex for 5 consecutive nights and it’s been amazing. The last 8 years it’s probably been once a month on average but it seems that my wife’s sex drive has gone through the roof for no apparent reason and rekindled what we had when first together. Maybe being Christmas season 😂 even her initiating talking dirty before and during sex and going into detail about what she loves and another couple or person joining in etc (I know that would never happen and it’s just dirty talk) one night she even asked to go again and said I gave her a double orgasm during one session.
Its not a question but just so happy and hopefully it continues and to anyone in a bit of a rut to know things can change, even for one week 😂

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Lillibridge · 05/12/2025 09:17

I'm really happy for you. Often on here, you read experiences where sex has dried up and the relationship is fraught with problems. Its nice to read a positive story for a change!

I would say however that inviting someone in can bring its own problems. We invited a guy into our relationship after our sexlife hit the doldrums and whilst it was good for her, it proved difficult for me. He's a lovely guy, sexy, well endowed etc but that meant he became her primary sexual focus. She was obsessed with him, still is. That lasted four years. It's largely ended now, they're still in touch via Whatsapp however. Be careful what you wish for, and all that.

Enjoy the love-making. Enjoy each other. Hope it goes from strength to strength!

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Mcc8700 · 05/12/2025 11:40

Lillibridge · 05/12/2025 09:17

I'm really happy for you. Often on here, you read experiences where sex has dried up and the relationship is fraught with problems. Its nice to read a positive story for a change!

I would say however that inviting someone in can bring its own problems. We invited a guy into our relationship after our sexlife hit the doldrums and whilst it was good for her, it proved difficult for me. He's a lovely guy, sexy, well endowed etc but that meant he became her primary sexual focus. She was obsessed with him, still is. That lasted four years. It's largely ended now, they're still in touch via Whatsapp however. Be careful what you wish for, and all that.

Enjoy the love-making. Enjoy each other. Hope it goes from strength to strength!

Thanks and appreciate it. We struggled for a while with sex and she would always say it’s because the honeymoon period is over but my sex drive has remained high but she’s had a sudden surge and hopefully it continues.
i know we would never have any join us and it’s just fantasy talk that’s abit exciting in the moment. Maybe when we first got together but certainly not now.

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Gymbunny2025 · 05/12/2025 12:55

Has she been ready a sexy book, watching a sexy series or crushing on someone… sexy?!

Lillibridge · 05/12/2025 13:05

Mcc8700 · 05/12/2025 11:40

Thanks and appreciate it. We struggled for a while with sex and she would always say it’s because the honeymoon period is over but my sex drive has remained high but she’s had a sudden surge and hopefully it continues.
i know we would never have any join us and it’s just fantasy talk that’s abit exciting in the moment. Maybe when we first got together but certainly not now.

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Yes, having an extra person, although thrilling is a double-edged sword. Not a road I would've embarked upon, in hindsight. It's a door you cannot close once opened. She wants sex with him again and I've agreed if he's ever available.

However, great to hear you're swinging from the chandeliers! Enjoy!

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Mcc8700 · 05/12/2025 13:48

Gymbunny2025 · 05/12/2025 12:55

Has she been ready a sexy book, watching a sexy series or crushing on someone… sexy?!

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Only watching I’m a celeb so I very much doubt it 😂 😂. Whatever or whoever it is I’m not fussed though. Its almost like we’ve fell in love again (not just sex) but something changed and it brings back all the old memories of why we fell in love.

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mrandmrsrobinson · 05/12/2025 14:41

That's nice for you dear.
And one night you managed to rock her world twice, she must be so proud of you.

LiveToTell · 05/12/2025 14:54

mrandmrsrobinson · 05/12/2025 14:41

That's nice for you dear.
And one night you managed to rock her world twice, she must be so proud of you.

😂

Hackman · 05/12/2025 15:27

Do you think she could have word with my wife!

yorkshireteabagman · 05/12/2025 16:12

I'm rooting for you that it has nothing to do with Dave from accounts....

LittlePurpleTeapot · 05/12/2025 19:06

mrandmrsrobinson · 05/12/2025 14:41

That's nice for you dear.
And one night you managed to rock her world twice, she must be so proud of you.

In my head that read in the voice of an 80 year old Granny 😂

LittlePurpleTeapot · 05/12/2025 19:07

@Mcc8700 Can I ask how old you both are?
Often women hit a surge around peri/menopause.

jackdunnock · 06/12/2025 02:41

Either peri menopause or she's having an affair (or both 🙈).

TillyVanilla · 06/12/2025 05:47

Perhaps it's a testament to communicating your desires to each other... Fantasy talk is a hell of an aphrodisiac! Even if some things are better left in the mind!

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Mcc8700 · 06/12/2025 11:17

LittlePurpleTeapot · 05/12/2025 19:07

@Mcc8700 Can I ask how old you both are?
Often women hit a surge around peri/menopause.

early 40’s so could be peri

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Mcc8700 · 06/12/2025 11:18

jackdunnock · 06/12/2025 02:41

Either peri menopause or she's having an affair (or both 🙈).

Maybe, the local delivery driver does flirt with her quite a bit and I’ve caught him checking her out a few times

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Gymbunny2025 · 06/12/2025 11:24

Mcc8700 · 06/12/2025 11:18

Maybe, the local delivery driver does flirt with her quite a bit and I’ve caught him checking her out a few times

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The milkmen of the 21st century maybe 😂

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Mcc8700 · 06/12/2025 11:27

Gymbunny2025 · 06/12/2025 11:24

The milkmen of the 21st century maybe 😂

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😂😂😂

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Gymbunny2025 · 06/12/2025 11:29

If she has a crush and is ‘taking it out’ on you, enjoy it! I definitely have in the past. I’m sure my OH has too.

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Mcc8700 · 06/12/2025 11:53

Gymbunny2025 · 06/12/2025 11:29

If she has a crush and is ‘taking it out’ on you, enjoy it! I definitely have in the past. I’m sure my OH has too.

It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest if she fancied someone or abit of harmless flirting. She always has men look at her if we go out and she’s dressed up in them leather leggings or a short skirt with heels and a low cut top.

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