Solo Swinging when single- crazy?

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I recently found the website Fabswingers and got curious. Decided to make an account just to see what it was like, as I have always been curious about the idea of joining a loving couple. Although, I have 0 experience with this, and I guess being a single woman, I have got tons of men messaging me. Are there any tips or advice for this lifestyle? I’m super curious, but I would just want to find down to earth couples

you will be very popular as i'm sure you've already found both with Couples as a 'unicorn' and Men.
set your filters to reduce unwanted messages on Gender, Age etc.
block the pests
be very selective
talk and talk before any meeting , engage in the Forums
always meet socially first
think about your safety
enjoy 🙂

I found the onslaught of messages very off putting, so blocked single men and did my own searching.

Insist on involving the woman too in communications - you don't want to discover the female part of a couple is actually an inflatable doll from Lovehoney

If you’re curious, consider visiting a swingers nightclub on a couples or single‑women night (often Saturdays). Fabswingers has list of nightclubs by region including reviews for familiarisation. Single women are very welcomed and swingers night clubs place a strong emphasis on etiquette, consent, and safety — their reputation and licensing often depend on it.

• Choose the right night: look for events specifically for couples and single women to match the vibe you want.
• Check the club’s rules: read the venue’s code of conduct and entry requirements before you go.
• Prioritise consent and boundaries: be clear about what you want and what you won’t accept; communicate this calmly and directly.
• Use etiquette: respectful behaviour is expected and enforced; staff will intervene if rules are broken.
• Meet people in person: clubs give you the chance to mingle with couples face‑to‑face rather than relying solely on places like Fabswinger which have too much noise.
• No pressure: you never have to do anything you don’t want to; leaving a conversation or situation is always acceptable.
• Stay safe: travel with a plan for getting home, keep your belongings secure, and trust your instincts.

OP, responding with some hesitation as it is not a situation l have been involved in.

But…

1. Do you have a friend you could confide in? It’s important for someone to know your whereabouts for personal safety.
2. Are you bi or at least bi curious? Going into things with another woman in the presence of another is a big step, particularly if you have no 1:1 female/female experience.