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[Whatalife88]

Hi everyone,

I have a new partner (we've been together a few months) and we decided to have sex for the first time at the weekend. I was anxious going into it but as foreplay was happened I felt I started to relax and I did orgasm during that, the issue is, his penis is absolutely huge and he couldn't get it in! Ive had children so I'm not sure what's happening. We tried multiple times and it just wouldn't. He was also going soft easily. Tell me this won't keep happening as we are so well connected emotionally. Never been so happy . Any advice? Ty

Lube is your friend.

No one can say whether this will keep happening or not.
Was his size the problem, or was the issue that he went flacid really quickly?
Meaning, did it not fit because it was painful to try? Or was there just not enough penetrative force for him to move forward?

I once had a partner with an extremely large penis and we sometimes had the same problem. The answer for me was to give him oral, with both hands, which would always get him hard and produce lots of pre-cum. Then to move to penetration very quickly. He was very considerate and would be very gentle with me and stop when it became too uncomfortable for me.