Reminiscing

[noego]

Inspired by another thread on casual sex. It reminded me of a number of ONS that I had. The best ones where when the sexual chemistry was instant Palpable upon meeting. A knowing of each other as though we'd known each other for years. Possibly the situation.
Fun times!

Surely if the sex was that amazing they wouldn’t be ONS?

I’ve only had two ONS, and both were horrendous.

I just got home from a ONS, they're not all bad 😉

Best sex ever was a ONS.

He got on a plane to the Philippines the next morning. No contact details exchanged. Both enjoyed it for what it was. Which probably added to the enjoyment of it!

I went a bit crazy shortly after my divorce early eighties and after my lover had returned to the US never to be heard from again

i had a large captive male audience whilst still living in married quarters at a RAF camp one night stands were very common good and bad

I do miss the spontaneity of a ONS and how quickly it seams to all go together.
The excitement and thinking about it later.
Ah, those were the days along time ago.

I did have one incredible ONS. There's something very dirty about sleeping with a complete stranger, especially as in my case he was quite a bit younger and had a body to die for. Kind of a forbidden fruit thing I guess, although he was very talented too. I still get horny thinking about it years later.

I love them. I don't think I could ever give them and just sleep with just one man again. It is the variety, the novelty, the sheer naughtiness.

The anticipation to see what he's packing and if he knows how to use it. The not having to lie and reassure him if he is too quick or small or both as you might have to with a partner.

Not having to worry if the kids will like him, because they'll never get to meet him.

Being able to be as wanton and dirty as you like because you know that you're not going to see him again.

so if you find a good one you don’t want to see him again (and again?). That’s the bit I don’t understand. To me a ONS was left at once for a reason!

I’ve never had a ONS. Sheltered life. 🫤🙄😬

also never had one, although coupled up forever at 20

I get that. I am not saying that I haven't seen a couple of good ones again (and again), but in the moment with them, the first time, it was a ONS, there was no expectation on either side. I hope that makes sense😂

I had plenty of them many were good but I prefered a female me what she wants a good fuck and tells me wants what she wants Sadly I am 78 and have stroke

ah ok I do get you now. I guess to me I wouldn’t count those as ONS even though you’re right they were at first- and yes first time sex can be very thrilling!

Yes. I guess I was stretching the meaning of ONS a bit. But if someone's particularly good, I'm happy to go back for more. But I'm not ready to give up on first time sex yet, either 😀.

As a male I loved one night stands, no hassle or drama just a quick bit of fun. I had many in my teens, and into early adulthood.

will never forget seeing a woman I had a one night stand with appear on a tv show many years later completely out the blue to me while watching it with my wife and her family, and them both commenting what a nice person she seemed, if only they knew!