Getting more perverted in old age

[Gambino1726]

For those who are active, or still make an effort to be active, are you getting more perverted to get your rocks off?

im mid/late 40s. Always enjoyed sex, but find it less appealing now in older age however I still want it.

the probably is that basic sec just doesn’t do it for me anymore. I’ve always been happy with vanilla sex providing the lovers were good, but now find myself craving more extreme sex in order to be satisfied.

is this the norm?

Im a 41yr old male and definitely like to push boundaries more and more

Maybe a better question is why you're using terms like perverted and extreme. Attitudes towards sex undoubtedly change with age, but some people get more interested whilst some get less so.
I'd be the very last person to kink shame, but the fact that, with most of your adult life still ahead of you, you are leaning towards such tropes would be something that, in a partner, would trouble me.

I don't think there is a norm is there? I've certainly become bi in a way that I never used to be when I was younger but I don't regard that as extreme or perverted.

I think society is far more sex obsessed now than it ever has been, and non vanilla sex is now the norm, else you're doing it wrong.

So I'm not sure it's an age thing, but FOMO.

I’m in my early 40s and no way am I in fucking old age 😂

Man by any chance? Ick.

I can’t get over the “still active” or “still make an effort to be active” when talking about being in their 40s, I mean come on, I’m just getting started 😂😂

That’s the stereotype isn’t it? That the older people get the more into kinks they get to maintain their sex lives!

Brave perhaps to phrase it like that!

It makes sense you would be more comfortable in yourself, lose some of the inhibitions you may have had at an earlier age. Not sure about perv though.

Grateful when I get some these days. Not yet ready to be put out to pasture in my early 40s.

The Edwardians might disagree.

Depends on what’s classed as extreme/ perverted, likewise what’s classed as vanilla, different folk have different perceptions. Been threads on here in the past about kinks and they made my thoughts that maybe anal/ prostate massage, bondage, which were beyond our norm and probably a bit extreme, were mild beyond belief. Additionally, the ever present porn raises its head, does OP watch it and therefore have views on extreme that are porn related rather than own thoughts on extreme sex

@sadcafe This might help?
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extreme_ironing

Bit too extreme for me, really don’t like heights

They didn't have the internet shoving sex in your face at every opportunity and porn easily accessible from your mobile.

Maybe not, but my point was less about the accessibility of porn and more about how sexualised and "perverted" they were.

Ick! What makes you think that?? I’m female last time I checked

Half the women on here are blokes pretending to be women (and most of the other blokes who post on the sex threads are pervs too). Didn't you know??! 😂

Seeing as the OP has suggested they are getting more perverted, are you suggesting they could, in fact, be transitioning to male?
#reductioadabsurdum

Or is it you’ve reached a point of sexual freedom and can do what the fuck you want as with other areas in life.

When I was younegr I was really just not very much but I like all sorts to do and have things done to me with women and man Many women like to see two men suck each other as well the normal and many women like to play another I assure this is very nice

Surely it makes no difference if you are male of female - we all enjoy sex in different ways. Sex definitely gets better with age and nothing wrong with experimenting as long as all agree willingly.