Prostate massage

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My fwb and I have been playing around with the idea of this for a while, so we got the equipment together (gloves, lots of lube) and tried it out on Sunday.

I tried to be as relaxed as I could, but once she got more than a couple of centimetres in, it started to feel sore and uncomfortable.

We'll try again soon, but I'm just wondering if I'll ever be able to enjoy it or whether it's a non starter?

Does anyone have any tips for making it easier?

It’s not compulsory you know! If you don’t like it try something else and enjoy the fact you have a partner you can discuss stuff with openly.

I know it's not compulsory, but I do want try new things, and I've heard that prostate orgasms can be very powerful and totally different from normal. I'm not getting any younger and I'd really like to see what it's all about.

Why not get a toy and try yourself first?

I would definitely recommend a toy specifically for the job, like an Aneros, to start with and try on your own. It does take a bit of time for things to get relaxed and open up to enjoy it.

My husband started with prostate massage last year due to some meds he was on restricting his orgasm. I help him out with it now and have found that it does get his juices flowing and obviously feels good for him.

Get a vpn and watch some videos

Start small and work up, ALWAYS use lots of lube.

Having previously worked in the sex industry for a number of years it surprised me how many men wanted this and full pegging.

So I took your advice and tried on my own, starting small and working my way up (iterally). I was then able to use a toy that i initially thought would be too big, but went in easily in the end.

It didn't feel quite as good as I'd hoped, but it was nice. I think I need to invest in a vibrating toy.

It’s great that younger open to the idea of some ‘bum play’ so many guys are so closed to the idea.

best advice I can give it start small, go slowly, and use lots of lube. My OH and I are very experiential and we have got to the point now where she wears a strap on with a 5’ peg. As long as I’m completely relaxed it feels great, if I’m not 100% in the mood it can hurt and I don’t get the same enjoyment out of it.

hopefully not TMI, but make sure your bowls are completely empty- this makes a HUGE difference and I now won’t entertain any anal play unless I’m
completely clear in that department!!