Bf bought me my first toy. Excited but have questions

[Carinaxox]

My bf and I have been together a couple of months and have been taking it slow. Haven't slept together yet. I was in very abusive marriage fir several years before him, and he respects my need to build trust again and take things slow.
We are intimate but no actual sex yet. He's respectful and not in any way pushy about this. Said he'll be guided by whenever I'm ready to try it.
The first time he played with me "down there" (lol) I came and had the most amazing orgasm of my life. No exaggeration. He came from that alone, I didn't even get as far as touching his cock.
Anyway, I've struggled to come since the first time despite all his efforts.
He brought up the subject of toys and asked whether I'd like to try one. I got wet just thinking about it lol, have never used one before.
So, he's got me one but I'm not allowed to see it till we next meet, he wants to keep it as a surprise.
So, I guess I'm looking for tips on using a toy for first time. I'd like him to be there with me when I try it, would be a huge turn on for him too.

Depends on what the toy is!

Yes, depends on the toy. I personally would not like to have a toy bought for me without choosing it as there are some types of stimulation I do not like and others I need. Overall, I would say use it on your own first and fantasise or watch porn( whatever it is you do) without him watching as that might put pressure on you.

I’d suggest start on a low setting and build up, as they can be quite intense. I have a wand, and love it. Can have a short break then go again!

Take lube and don't be afraid to ask to try it solo the first time. That takes any pressure off.
Be prepared to use it on him too, depending on what it is.