Me and DH started swinging last year, initially with another single gent for me and then with couples. We have only had a few meets with couples an Don the last meet he couldn't get it up.
He was pretty hard on himself, no pun intended and for a few reasons we have not done anything swinging related for quite a few months. We've talked at great length and he wants to give it another go.
I know it's just a mental block for him as he has had no issue getting hard in 20 years with me so viagra or similar wouldn't help the situation.
I'm trying to downplay it when he talks about an upcoming meet we have but I know it's still in his mind and I'm worried it will become a self fulfilling prophecy if he doesn't relax and stop thinking about it.
Anyone been here or can offer some advice xx