DP only rarely climaxes during PIV but always during anal

[wevetalkedalittlenotalot]

We’ve talked about it a bit and he’s linked it to surgery he had. I’m not so sure as I think him coming really quickly during anal suggests it’s more of a death grip scenario.

He’s really generous in bed and always makes me come a couple of times and is happy to end things without coming at all. We’ve (mutually, absolutely no pressure from him) tried anal a couple of times and he comes really quickly.

i suppose I’m wondering if it’s death grip that’s causing the lack of coming during PIV is it a bad thing for him to come through anal (as in, will it perpetuate the cycle) or is this ok?

probably because anal is considered forbidden and a bit risky to a lot of people

? Why should men be responsible for women’s orgasms,? If you want a toy then use get one and use it -

Why do say it's risky to some? Or do you mean risqué?
(FWIW I'm absolutely not trying to be a spelling fascist - I just don't understand the comment.)

Risky as in it does carry risks such as health risks but you are probably right risqué too. I'm not saying right or wrong just saying what a lot still think

I'm not convinced the "health risks" are significant if you think about what you're doing and are sensible.