How can I spice up our sex life?

[PeonyPatch]

Ok, so first off I’ll start by saying that my DH and I are ttc for the first time. We haven’t had this much sex since the beginning of our relationship haha. I am wondering how we can spice things up so it doesn’t feel so… monotonous… not that I am sure that’s even the right word as I still enjoy it.. I just want to enjoy it a whole lot more and relax and feel more pleasure.

Any suggestions are welcome. Thanks!

Understand it isn’t easy when trying to conceive so doing something different makes it feel less like a functional job!
Very much depends on what you have, or haven’t tried before but suggest you start slow. Maybe new sexy underwear and possibly progress to a set more designed for the bedroom, ie open fronted. Also maybe change your grooming regime. If not already, maybe try a Brazilian or Hollywood wax….i know that is often a big fav for men (but occasionally not all). Maybe ask him to tie your hands to the bed before he penetrates you. I know when we were TTC I found that very erotic and so did OH.

Good luck and def nice to try and make it more exciting

Orgasms help getting pregnant so I’d just up the amount of those you are having during a session! And remember you don’t need to have it every day. Just focus before/during ovulation when you will feel most horny and wanting to rip his clothes off anyway 😂

Blindfold cuffs etc ? would you feel comfortable using these, wrist cuffed to bed post, DH then lift legs up , wide ties to cuffs , tht way your hips lift up naturally and DH goes in deeper?

Oh no, I’m not sure I’m into that 🤣