Hi all
I have been with my DP for almost 3 years and we very recently moved in together.
We do have a slightly mismatched libido - mine is higher than his, and to make things better, I had bought myself some toys (which had worked well and I was satisfied in that way, then we have sex about once a month)
He had joked that when we moved in, we would no doubt be having more sex, so I wouldnt need them any more, but so far nothing has changed.
Its been two weeks now since he's moved in and about 6 weeks from we had sex. In all fairness in between all this, the move has been exhausting, I had a cervical biopsy etc.
I now have to have a LLETZ done on 16th of this month. We literally have until Wednesday to have sex (and I am really horny!) as I have a coil and you need to avoid sex for a week before this procedure and cant have sex for about 6 weeks after, and IMO, 12 weeks without sex when you're in your early 30s, in a relationship is woeful.
Any time I have made a move this week, he's turned on the white noise machine and went to sleep!
He works from home 100% of the time and there is absolutely nowhere or any time I can get privacy to be "on my own" to sort myself out.
I dont really know what I want to gain from this post. Just wanted to vent.