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Embarrassing masturbation question TMI

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embarrassed2025 · 29/06/2025 18:21

Ok, here goes. I'm in my 50's and have always been sexually active along with masturbating. Married for a long time, with rubbish sex and since then have FWB.
Issue is.... why do I feel like I'm wetting myself when I masturbate (lying on my back), yet thankfully during intercourse this doesn't happen? This happens even if my bladder is quite empty.
I'm really flummoxed!

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BCBird · 29/06/2025 18:22

Have u heard of squirting?

embarrassed2025 · 29/06/2025 18:23

@BCBird Yes, but I don't think it's that. It's just a gush of wee when coming up to climax.

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dontcomeatme · 29/06/2025 18:26

Try breathing through the climax rather than holding breath/tensing up. My Mrs started weeing when having an orgasm via the clitoris because it was just so intense she was basically pushing it out without realising. Could be that? X

noego · 29/06/2025 20:30

What does your FWB say about it?

No3392 · 29/06/2025 20:38

embarrassed2025 · 29/06/2025 18:23

@BCBird Yes, but I don't think it's that. It's just a gush of wee when coming up to climax.

That's what squirting is, pee and another substance.

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm

What Is a Squirting Orgasm?"

A squirting orgasm is an orgasm that includes female ejaculation. Learn more about squirting orgasm and how it happens.

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm

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