What do you think about when you have sex ??

[messyhouses]

So situation is he’s on top finishing himself off, then he says “ what are you thinking about “
I say loads of things “ washing, unloading the dishwasher, it’s a bin day, I need to unload the tumble dryer, work, kids “
he looks disappointed “ don’t you think sexy things like me finishing in u and getting you pregnant etc”
I said “ not really !”

I guess men are fairly straightforward with their thoughts, but do other people think odd things during sex ?

Tbrh, other men!

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“Don’t come yet” 😂

I’m not good at holding on (I’m a woman).

But that thought could apply to both of us 😂

I mean, the worst response would be someone else. The second worst probably your response? Poor guy

Haha this made me laugh! Hehe … “it’s a bin day” haha, classic.

“Your mum”

My mind does wander when I'm getting foreplay or having sex, particularly if I'm tired, but it doesn't take away from enjoying the sensations. When I'm about to orgasm I'm purely focusing on him.

I agree it’s not all the time but random thoughts like “ I need to remember to put out the recycling after “ sometimes comes into me head and “ hurry up I want to watch love island “ 😂

If I’m enjoying it- nothing!

Same for me once I’m into it. Until I need to think of something really sad or boring to stop myself peaking too soon 😂

Out of interest why do you need to stop yourself?

I think I pretty much only think about the sex. Primarily is my partner enjoying herself, what I need to do to give her an orgasm, and whether she wants me to hurry up and have mine.
If my mind wandered to taking the bins out, I can't imagine either of us would have much hope of cumming.

Depends on who I’m with. With my ex it was how bored I was or what chores I needed to do 😂

@messyhouses sounds like you’re being the dutiful housewife 😂 hope you don’t tell him you fake your orgasm when he cums quick😉👍🏿

Previous partners

I don’t orgasm through vaginal sex, he likes to finish in me which I love. We have very often( but not always use the wand before ) not I have to concentrate for that 😂

If it makes anyone feel any better, with dh I’ve had times focusing on not pooing myself lol

🫣 @Voyager54

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Brilliant thread @messyhouses😂

@TableSet I’m sure you don’t mean Cadburys chocolate 🤣🤣👍🏿

Oh, because once I’ve climaxed that’s it for me. I can go again but I need about 30 minutes before I want to. And I don’t want it all to be over in 5 minutes. There have been occasions where I just haven’t been able to hold back, but it’s more fun for us both if I can put it off for a bit. It can literally take me a minute or two when I’m in the right mood!

Good sex is about getting out of my head for a change. I can’t imagine thinking about chores!

I think about the sensations in my body, and how he’s reacting to me, and whether if I beg a little he might do that really depraved thing that I love!

We are all waiting to hear what that is @PinotPony ?!?

Normally algebra, and trigonometry towards the end 😂

Anything more than 30 degrees from the vertical is unsatisfactory then I guess?