Advice on some specific sexual acts please!… Not looking for male perspective!

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Hi, I have name changed as it’s quite personal. I’m also only looking for women’s perspectives as I don’t think men can answer this for me. Thanks! ☺️

Okay!… I’m not being an internet perve with these questions btw! I would genuinely like advice on how you overcome these issues!

Doing/concentrating on more than one thing at a time during sex, such as 69 or threesome….I really struggle to relax enough to feel aroused because I’m concentrating on giving head! Which means that I don’t enjoy it as I’m focussing too much on his cock than my own orgasm. How do I overcome this? I would like to have a MMF threesome with my dh but when i watch threesome porn, the woman seems to be doing/getting a lot! I feel like there’ll be too much going on that I won’t be able to get in to it! Iyswim

Anal… how do you overcome the feeling that you’re shitting yourself?… I actually enjoy anal, as I can come a lot easier. But I’m not a fan of that feeling that my insides are falling out!

Are you really a woman though? If you were…your rectum is the complete opposite side to your clit and you have no prostrate. And it makes you come, eh? 🧐

69- I don’t especially concentrate? But sometimes I feel I need to stop what I’m doing to enjoy what he’s doing. And sometimes he’ll just thrust when I’m close (he can tell) and I’ll just keep still. I actually really love this! Both lying on your sides can be much more comfortable too.

mmf- no idea!

anal- I find it feels a bit odd going in. But as long as I’m relaxed, lubed up and aroused it quickly feels fine and kind of like normal sex (but I dont orgasm from it).

Because I stimulate my clit at the same time.

No I don’t orgasm from anal alone. I just find it easier to come without vaginal penetration, which means I find it easier with anal.

I know women who orgasm from anal sex. For some females the internal clitoral arms touch the wall of the rectum and therefore there can be stimulation.
It's also apparently quite a sensitive area (I've never tried) so depending on your psychology it can allow you to build to a sexual climax.
You have to remember that some females can orgasm on sexual thoughts or through breast stimulation etc without the clitoris being involved.
We are all pretty unique on that front.