Hi all,
This is my very first post on Mumsnet, so please be gentle! 😊
My DH and I have been together for a long time, and while our sex life is generally good, we’re both feeling curious and open to trying new things to enhance our intimacy and connection. We’ve been chatting about different ways to explore together in a safe and respectful way.
As a first step, I’ve become quite interested in the idea of trying a yoni massage (sensual, not clinical), ideally from a professional male therapist — with full consent and boundaries in place. My husband is supportive and quite open-minded about it.
We’re also toying with the idea of visiting a couples-friendly strip club, just for fun and curiosity — not looking for full-on swinging or anything too wild, but something sensual and exciting we can experience together.
We’re based in East Anglia, so London or nearby would be the most practical for us.
I’d love to hear if anyone has:
- Tried a sensual yoni massage before (especially from a male therapist) – any recommended practitioners or spas?
- Been to any couples-friendly or female-welcoming strip clubs in London or nearby?
- General advice or things to be mindful of when exploring this kind of thing as a couple?
We’re very much beginners at this, just dipping a toe in, so would appreciate any tips or personal experiences (either positive or things you wish you’d known before!).
Thanks so much!